jean-luc sisko Posted May 1, 2010 Share Posted May 1, 2010 I don't mean vent, but just get off my chest. I live in the UK, and....well for several years now, I have been going to get massages. and not in therapeutic places, but in places that do contented endings, if you get my meaning. it is not illegal in the UK, but i kind of got into it by curiosity and the fact i didn't have a gf at the time. i'm 30 now, and it's something i do about twice a month or so. i spend about sixty pounds sterling a time. i work for 35,000 pounds sterling, and have no major obligations, so it's a small deal financially. I expect people to say, "lmao!!! you loser!!!!" but i don't care, i cannot control others' replies. I'm not sounding very coherent, but i'm kind of thinking these things: - Is it ethical to do this? IMO, ethics is relative, since absolutes don't exist in the human sphere. Even though it is right to me, can it be deemed sleazy? I generally have an easy-going and non-judgmental view of life. to me, there are always differing views and perspectives in life. - I am not sex addicted, should anybody think so. it's no different from going on one night stands a lot, that does not per se denote addiction. it's something I do...well for fun. - People may think I'm odd for doing this, but I think in general it's benign. In the UK, we have people committing knife crime for the sake of it, and i could never do that. If I'm as bad as knife crime assailant, then i guess i'm hitler incarnate. Link to post Share on other sites
deux ex machina Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 This is legal in the UK? I learned my something new today. Link to post Share on other sites
SouthernSunshine Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 As long as you're not infringing on the rights of others.. I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. It's your life! Link to post Share on other sites
Author jean-luc sisko Posted May 5, 2010 Author Share Posted May 5, 2010 This is legal in the UK? I learned my something new today. It is legal, but under specific circumstances. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jean-luc sisko Posted May 6, 2010 Author Share Posted May 6, 2010 As long as you're not infringing on the rights of others.. I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. It's your life! well, i never go to any place that is iffy, I always trust my instincts. Link to post Share on other sites
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