Annie C. Posted May 2, 2010 Share Posted May 2, 2010 So I'm not technically in a relationship, but I'm not not in a relationship either. I left to study abroad in France in February, and before I left I (stupidly) started seeing this guy, but we weren't technically dating when I left. We had, however, spent nearly every day for 2 weeks together, and had a real connection. He is quite a bit older than me, and much more...experienced. After I left we started skyping every once in a while, and in March it was nearly an hour everyday. Then his work hours changed and it was impossible for us to use skype during the week. That would have been fine, except that the last few weekends he hasn't called me. We've been texting (via AIM) a bit, but it's not the same. Before, he seemed to want to make plans for this summer (taking me out to dinner, going to six flags, etc) but now I feel totally forgotten. Do you think this means anything? Or is he just overly stressed? We aren't technically dating, so I feel like he doesn't really have an obligation to stay in contact, and I don't want to be the one always initiating things.... What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
Fouts Posted May 2, 2010 Share Posted May 2, 2010 Could be that the fire has burned out on his side. Distance can do that very easily, especially if you haven't been intimate in any way. It's not that hard for another person to grab your attention. Not much you can do other than let him know you're still interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Deeblondie82 Posted May 2, 2010 Share Posted May 2, 2010 WOW! This sounds similar to my story. I'm seeing a guy who I'm not "together" with yet but its more then a friend level. We known each other for 9 years and haven't met yet. I am meeting him in 5 days!!! I am hoping that our first visit will be really good but if not I rather have a friendship then nothing since I've known him for a long time. He has become distant alot with the texting and calling me. He use to text me good morning and good night but now its kinda just a few text a day and one phone call. We use to talk a lot. I know he thinks I get needy (its true since we are so far apart) But I would say be open with it all and let him know whats going on...if he dont wanna listen then move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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