VeloFellow Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 Hi all, I've posted a couple of posts in here about my situation. The short version is that my ex and I had a bad, dramatic breakup at the worst possible time, mostly cause I was a dick. She moved away, but I want her back. She was sure she'd never speak to me again, but I went out to visit and we actually had some good times with no intimacy at all. Afterwards she was a lot more open about things - texting me and emailing me to tell me that she missed me a lot and it was 'really, really good' to see me. Now this girl is a bit hot and cold at the best of times, so it doesnt surprise me that she'd say that stuff, then go radio silent for a day or so, or just taper off any degree of closeness. So the deal is that I'm going back out to visit her. And she's going to let me stay with her. She's been a bit flirty in text messages, but still hot and cold. How do I handle myself on this trip? Should I push for reconciliation and talking about that? Or should I just go for light and fun and see where things go. I'm there for four nights and I'm positive that I'll try for some intimacy by the end of it. If she says no, I'll just back off and try again the next night. Who thinks that's an ok plan? If this girl wasn't into me, or was just leading me on, would she have me stay with her? The fact that we still talk makes me believe there's a chance. She'd have to be one hell of a cold hearted snake to lead me on that much if there wasn't a chance. She told me she loved me just two weeks ago - that doesn't vanish overnight, does it? Fire me some feedback here, guys. I'm flying in two days and have no idea what the landing is gonna be like. Link to post Share on other sites
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