Panos Posted May 7, 2010 Share Posted May 7, 2010 For a really long time I have not dated and focused solely on my career path which I am finding very exciting, I really do not have the time to date. The problem is I am very lonely and I want something more in my life, but I have worked so hard to get where I am and think getting involved will lead to distraction.....I really want to be with someone but I would feel guilty if I could not give them the attention they need, but I would have to decide between that and my responsibilities.....anyone think it can be done? Link to post Share on other sites
ForgetMeNots Posted May 8, 2010 Share Posted May 8, 2010 (edited) When you love some one you make time. Spend whatever time you do have, with them. Someone will be understanding of your situation and will respect that you are busy alot. Go live life to the fullest. Edited May 8, 2010 by ForgetMeNots Link to post Share on other sites
Peaceful Guy Posted May 8, 2010 Share Posted May 8, 2010 hard to get where I am and think getting involved will lead to distraction.....I really want to be with someone but I would feel guilty if I could not give them the attention they need, but I would have to decide between that and my responsibilities.....anyone think it can be done? sure! i think that there are dating sites that cater specifically to adults with very busy careers where people just like yourself go to find companionship. i believe that there are likely many others with similar descriptions of what they are looking for in a relationship probably right in their profile. good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Peaceful Guy Posted May 8, 2010 Share Posted May 8, 2010 also, watch some family movies such as muppet christmas carol just as a quick reminder of priorities in this life! Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted May 9, 2010 Share Posted May 9, 2010 The key is to find someone with similar interests, or in your case, someone with a career you can relate to. In my case, I haven't met any women yet who'd mind settling down with a DIY homesteader who is now being forced into writing books and making jewelry boxes out of repurposed wood in order to pay the bills. I'm not so independent minded that I'd fool myself into thinking I can be totally independent until I'm old and wrinkled, because then I'd be a bald-faced liar. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted May 9, 2010 Share Posted May 9, 2010 Life is about enjoying the journey, don't lose track of that. Don't sacrifice the hear and now for some future goal. Our American Presidents all seem to find time find "love" and get married. When you find the right person it compliments your life and gives you more energy to go onto greater things. Link to post Share on other sites
Jaser Posted May 13, 2010 Share Posted May 13, 2010 Ambition is the desire for personal achievement.It provides the motivation and determination necessary to help give direction to life. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 I agree with the poster who said find someone with similar interests. You need a woman who is also very ambitious and doesn't have much time for socializing. Link to post Share on other sites
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