dreamingoftigers Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 I don't want to lead you down the wrong path but she could very well be trying to do a "healing seperation" with you so that you can both work out your individual issues without getting in each other's way. my therapist recommended my h and i do that and we didn't but now I wish that we did. If you are making positive changes in your own life, that could very well strengthen the relationship you have with her and make you seem much more attractive. Just make sure she isn't pulling your strings to change and that she is actually working on herself as well. If she is playing you, and that will become apparent in time, then you have made some positive changes that will make you more attractive to the next person. If you were a little older I wouldn't say the same thing, but you strike me as being early 20s at the oldest so being apart and figuring things out is not such a bad thing. Not every girl is going to be down with the next guy either, just watch for signs. Link to post Share on other sites
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