Baronsamedi Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Hi, I am a 20 year old female who has never been on a date. I have had male friends my whole life, just never had a "boy friend". I am 6'0 and 180lbs, I can lift and throw 50lb feed bags and bales of hay. I hate makeup, tight clothes and "feminine" things. I would rather wrestle a man then watch a chick flick. I am not emotional like the other women/girls, don't proclaim every single newborn mammal cute. Love history, breeding goats, and listening to celtic/ any music with a "story" to it, like historical ballads. Even if I could drink,I don't want to. Hate partying, clubbing, etc. Would rather read a book. Like horror, historical, western, comedy movies. Where would I have a good chance at meeting a guy? Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 I didn't have my first gf until I was 22 after college. You should just do the things you like and you might meet some one that way. Also, you could try internet dating. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Baronsamedi Posted May 11, 2010 Author Share Posted May 11, 2010 I don't really want to try internet dating, I am not photogenic, plus I don't trust people till I've known them for a while, in person. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 I don't really want to try internet dating, I am not photogenic, plus I don't trust people till I've known them for a while, in person. You should really think about trying it, other then that make sure you are getting out there and meeting new people. Volunteer, go to singles groups at your church, ask friends to set you up, join a club for something you are into. Enjoy yourself nothing is wrong with you. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Hmm... Have you ever tried doing country line dancing? You'd be fine with jeans and boots. At 21 you can try the bar scene. I really don't know where else you can find men who are into different women. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Do you have any historical reenactment/SCA groups in your area? Those things are fun, you get to roleplay like you want (I can see you as a female warrior of some sort) - and you'd get to meet guys who would appreciate the things you like, and would appreciate you as well! Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted May 12, 2010 Share Posted May 12, 2010 Hi, I am a 20 year old female who has never been on a date. I have had male friends my whole life, just never had a "boy friend". I am 6'0 and 180lbs, I can lift and throw 50lb feed bags and bales of hay. I hate makeup, tight clothes and "feminine" things. I would rather wrestle a man then watch a chick flick. I am not emotional like the other women/girls, don't proclaim every single newborn mammal cute. Love history, breeding goats, and listening to celtic/ any music with a "story" to it, like historical ballads. Even if I could drink,I don't want to. Hate partying, clubbing, etc. Would rather read a book. Like horror, historical, western, comedy movies. Where would I have a good chance at meeting a guy? 20 years of age is a bit young. You seem kind of rigid in your outlooks. If you don't let yourself change and just become more rigid and set in your likes and dislikes, youll be your only enemy-even if you weren't bigger than the average man. Consider professonional help in being more joyful even if it means putting up with stuff that has till now pushed your angry button. Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted May 12, 2010 Share Posted May 12, 2010 (edited) Where would I have a good chance at meeting a guy? Skydiving! I'm not kidding either Edited May 12, 2010 by skydiveaddict Link to post Share on other sites
Brokendreams875 Posted May 26, 2010 Share Posted May 26, 2010 I agree with some of the other posters, line dancing, sports bars maybe to avoid clubs when you hit 21, maybe join a book club since you like to read or a gym since your obviously very fit. The thing is you can meet someone ANYWHERE. Just go out, put yourself out there and be comfortable with yourself and you will find someone. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
tman666 Posted May 26, 2010 Share Posted May 26, 2010 Hi, I am a 20 year old female who has never been on a date. I have had male friends my whole life, just never had a "boy friend". I am 6'0 and 180lbs, I can lift and throw 50lb feed bags and bales of hay. I hate makeup, tight clothes and "feminine" things. I would rather wrestle a man then watch a chick flick. I am not emotional like the other women/girls, don't proclaim every single newborn mammal cute. Love history, breeding goats, and listening to celtic/ any music with a "story" to it, like historical ballads. Even if I could drink,I don't want to. Hate partying, clubbing, etc. Would rather read a book. Like horror, historical, western, comedy movies. Where would I have a good chance at meeting a guy? You need to get into powerlifting, lumberjack sports, or highland games. I'm not kidding. Do you go to college? If so, check and see if they have any sort of clubs pertaining to the above mentioned activities. You might be surprised. Link to post Share on other sites
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