sadintexas Posted May 15, 2010 Share Posted May 15, 2010 I am so perplexed. How could he? Why send me a letter like that-telling me all the things he loves about me ( it's a long letter ) some surface stuff, some deep stuff - then wish me to find someone. He's pulling at your heart strings hoping that you will come runnning back saying "But I don't want anyone but you". He got something out of your relationship and he doesn't want to lose that. I'm sure there are genuine feelings there and he's going through pain right now too. But he is trying to manipulate you to change your mind. Stay strong. You're doing the right thing and if he really wishes the best for you, he WILL leave you alone. If he continues to try to pursue you, it is for selfish reasons. Please keep that in mind. Link to post Share on other sites
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