charasbb Posted May 15, 2010 Share Posted May 15, 2010 So 3 months ago I discovered that my now ex boyfriend who I had been dating for 2 years had cheated on me with this girl I had had suspicions about. This girl also had a boyfriend at the time who my ex and I both knew. When I found everything out and confronted my ex he told he had only slept with her once, but upon contacting the girl's boyfriend I discovered that she claimed to him it was an ongoing thing. I don't feel very sad about the break up anymore but a big part of me would like to know what exactly transcribed between them and I am tempted to ask the girl. I am wondering however if this is a good idea or if I should just assume it was an ongoing thing and move on? Link to post Share on other sites
Ilovecake Posted May 15, 2010 Share Posted May 15, 2010 whatever you find out will only hurt you. He is now your ex so you really don't need to know, whether it was once or a thousand times does not make one bit of difference in your life. On top of that contacting his now girlfriend will only make you look obsessed in his eyes, it's in very bad taste and could backfire terribly. Nothing posistive can come out of it. Just leave it alone and work on yourself instead so that you can have a better relationship with the next person. Link to post Share on other sites
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