cugo999 Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Hey guys, What does it mean to say you are whipped?. When can you be sure you are in the process of being whipped?. How can you stop this. I am getting disturbed , so I am sure others too. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 i see two meanings: 1 - literally being whipped with a whip 2 - "he's whipped" as in "she's got him under her heel" as in "he'll do whatever she tells him to" (she being his SO) - this is said in a negative way, to indicate that the guy's character isn't strong enough to oppose hers and hold up his own. that's my 2c, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Originally posted by cugo999 Hey guys, What does it mean to say you are whipped?. When can you be sure you are in the process of being whipped?. How can you stop this. I am getting disturbed , so I am sure others too. Whipped is when you're doing everything for her, you're completely co-dependent. Whipped guys have a fear of assertiveness, and it often damages relationships with friends, as it changes the man's social interaction methods and schedule. If you had a whipped friend, you'd know--it sucks. Plus, whipped guys aren't even that alluring to women, they're just like another girlfriend practically. If you've been whipped, serious action needs to be taken--actions that are 180 degrees counterintuitive to your current behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cugo999 Posted January 25, 2004 Author Share Posted January 25, 2004 take for instance you love your g/f. she works from 6 a.m to 10 pm, she calls you if you could buy her some lunch and drop to her at her work place. You do that, are you whipped? Are there some assistance you can offer your g/f that neccessarily do not meen she has put you under her control?. Or do we just say no to any thing they may request to avoid being whipped ? Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Doing nice things for her only constitutes being 'whipped' if she demands that you do them all the time and if she never does nice things for you. If she asks you for favours once in a while, that is not being 'whipped'. If you do favours for each other pretty much equally, then the relationship is on an equal basis. It is not whether you do what she asks (especially if it doesn't matter to you) or if you do a lot of things for her - it's whether you both do. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 *yawns* It's not women that establish the definition of whipped, It's your guy-friends. Ask them if you are whipped, if they say you are, you are. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Your guy friends will say you are 'whipped' even when you are not at all whipped but being an excellent bf. If you listen to them, you'll lose the woman. So you choose; the opinions of 'the guys' who, doubtless, envy you your relationship, or your own brain. If the relationship is balanced in terms of give-and-take, then you are not 'whipped'. Of course, if you pander to what your guy pals might think, you may not actually have a spine at all anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme Your guy friends will say you are 'whipped' even when you are not at all whipped but being an excellent bf. If you listen to them, you'll lose the woman. So you choose; the opinions of 'the guys' who, doubtless, envy you your relationship, or your own brain. If the relationship is balanced in terms of give-and-take, then you are not 'whipped'. Of course, if you pander to what your guy pals might think, you may not actually have a spine at all anyway. If you're being an excellent b/f you know your position in the relationship, and you don't have to ask your guy friends. If you listen to them, and they're right, you NEED to lose the woman, that's the whole point. If the relationship is balanced in terms of give and take, then you are not whipped. Of course, if you ignore male input, you may not actually have balls at all anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
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