fnouri Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Let me tell you all, that I spent 70 bucks getting this manual. It is called Stop Divorce. So I figured, OK, I am not married, but my fiance is leaving me( you can read about my sob story in this forum) and I can try some stuff from this manual. Well, all that I read was two things. First, even if it hurts, let it go. The manual say that agree with your mate completely, then simply tell them they can go if they want to, and magically, they stay and fall in love with you again. I say B... S...! The other advice is to lie as much as possible! The author calls it white lies, but you know, lie is lie! It does say that if you talk and analyze, if you say you are a changed man (or woman), or if you tell them you love them it will make matters worse, which in my experience it is true! One funny thing, one of his advise is to offer cold cash for them to stay, for example, say "I will give you 50 thousand free and clear if you stay with me! Can you beleive that? All you need is God. Trust in him, give control of your life to him, and you will be fine. Read my next post, it is interesting. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 HAHA Fnouri, I've seen that book advertised on the net and I assumed it was all about 'threatening' by taking all their assets or something. I'm surprised it actually give 'relationship' advice. I'm with you.....white lies or any lie.....even if they worked.....would not make you feel good about getting someone back or keeping them. If they don't love you out of their own free will., without trickery, then what do you really have? I wish someone WOULD write a book or come up with some formula to make someone love you and want to stay with you. I'm sorry to say.....I think it's a pipe dream. Link to post Share on other sites
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