weeble78 Posted May 18, 2010 Share Posted May 18, 2010 My bf of 6 months and I have had 3 arguments in the past 2 weeks. 1. The night before my birthday when he was supposed to stay over he called up at 9pm to tell me he had too much washing to do and would see me the next day. 2. Last week we'd arranged to spend the day together Saturday. He then organised a bbq and party at his house for him and his friends, saying he'd forgotten about the day we were supposed to spend togehter. 3. Today I had a scan appointment at hospital which I told him of this morning. I took him for a scan he had to have on his back a few weeks ago, without him asking me. He didn't offer to come with me but just said good luck and I was upset. I said I was disappointed he wasn't coming with me and he said he'd forgotten the date. I feel like he thinks I'm trying to manipulate or control him. Each time we have fallen out we have rowed, once with me voicing my concerns that we keep having these misunderstandings and the fact that we seem to miss each other's point. I feel he tries hard to say how much he wants to be with me, move in with me, never wants us to split up, but he's started doing things like 'forgetting' to call, or text me back. I'm upset to the point of finishing with him this evening as I don't want to be taken for a ride again. I don't know how to handle this. He's stopped inviting me to his house or cooking for me, stopped seeming excited when he's seeing me. Please help x Link to post Share on other sites
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