cantsleep02 Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 2 years, we had plans for eachother, she always said to me there would never be anybody else ever, we had our rough times but always seemed to get over them, she loved me very much and was so sweet and innocent, about a month ago when i would be with her it seemed sometyimes like she had changed, i just found out that she had sex with another guy and may be going out with him, but at this same time she would tell me how much she loved me, shed cry sometimes because she loved me so much and say that there is no way there would be anybody else, but there was. She eneded up making plans with me to come over one nday, but never showed up, no phone cakll or anything, this was 2 weeks ago and i still havent heard from her, i found out that shes staying at her bestfriends house with this other kid but its like the twilight zone for me, this girl is so sweet and innocent and was always kind of afraid of having sex and whats shes doing blows my mind, its like a new person, she never even broke up with me, we were so much in love and this is definitly driving me crazy, i miss her. what should i feel like? Its also very hard because we isolated ourselves with eachother, if she hadnt seen me for 10 minutes she would miss me and be so glad to see me, this girl was tied to me, and she even said to me, "i love you, i want to marry you and everything is going to be so good, there can never be anybody else, if you ever left me id go insane" something along those terms but meanwhile there was someone else, i cant beleive this is happening and i really dont know what to do, she never broke up with me which makes it even harder and she just disapeared. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 It all sounds very deceiving, because of her innocence. You fell into the trap. No worries, dude -- It's happened to me before and now, I always have my eyes, wide open! If it's closure that you seek, sometimes, 'we have to make our own smiles'. This quote is from a loveshack member (don't remember who she is, though). In other words, sometimes we have to make closure, to help keep us sane and happy. You were fooled and it's gonna hurt for a while, but you'll get past this. Hold your head up and suck it up and drive on! You're gonna be fine! ~Vivid Link to post Share on other sites
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