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Whats going on in her head? am i wrong to pursue this?


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Splackavellie

This may be a bit of a read but please help me out:

 

I'm in a serious situation in which I need help. My ex and mother of my daughter who I was with for 5 years moved out about 7 months ago and we broke up...well her best friend is my neighbor and recently we been just hanging out and sleeping together.

 

Now I know neither of us should have crossed that line but we did...we been having amazing sex for the past month or so and spending damn near everyday together. Example last night she made me dinner out of the blue and we just sat up talking about everything and anything all night. Our kids play together as well.

 

Thing is, before it was just about the mind blowing sex with her, but now it's getting deeper and I'm starting to truly care about this woman, not sure how she feels about me but she texts me all day long, she's at my house a lot as well, we damn near spend 24/7 together when not at work and we usually end up in bed together before the night is over.

 

Like i said, I'm not sure what to think though,She hints that she has feelings for me but never really comes out with it, I get texts from her saying stuff like "you make me happy" or " I've never been this happy before, not even in the 6 years I was married" and "miss you" "I miss being with you, can't wait to come home and see you"etc. But she never says this face to face

 

The other night I finally got the nerve to confess my real feelings for her and I'm scared I freaked her out.

 

I apologized for putting her on the spot and coming on to strong and she replied:

 

"K hun, it doesn't bother me. I just want to tell you I do like you, I just want to take things slow and go on from there."

 

What does take things slow mean? Seriously..if she wanted to take things slow we wouldn't be having sex day in and day out or spending all our free time together.Does she mean slow as in working towards a relationship?

 

I'm really confused, getting feelings for this girl wasn't the plan but it's to late and i'm falling hard for her. Just not sure what is going on in her head or what she meant by take things slow.Like i said we get along awesome! and always have fun together. It's not just about the sex and even she said it's not.

 

HELP!!

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