i_miss_him Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 [font=courier new][font=times new roman]my boy friend allen broke up with me last night heres how it was my ex bf who i cant stand called and said he was ganna break up with me and i didnt belive him so i called allen on 3 way and soon as we got on the phone he said he wanted to break up and i started crying and hung up and and now allen just wants to be friends we have went out 3 times now and i know he is the only one i should be with we were tallkin about getting married soon as we could but i dont know what to do i tried comittingsuicide because of him and i dont know what to do and now we r talkin on the phone HELP[/font][/font][color=violet][/color] Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 please please please talk to someone, a close friend, a family member a school counsellor.... trust me when i say nothing is ever worth killing your self over..... your going through a hard time dealing with the pain and anguish of allen... but you havent lost him.... hes still your friend... what if a few weeks or a few months go by with you 2 being friends and he decides he wants to try another relationship with you....... what if another boy who happens to admires you or likes you and you dont even know it yet cuz he knew you were with allen and didnt want to interefere with you..... theres so many things to live for that your not seeing now because trust me its not the end of the world.... talk to someone who can help you emotionally, ask someone to refer you to a counsellor or a therapist but please get help ...... your rash thinking is preventing you from seeing and thinking clearly..... PM me if you like..... if you ever need to talk... PM me..... please. Link to post Share on other sites
pinkroses Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 You only went out with this guy 3 times and you are trying to commit suicide over him? Please get some help, immediately. Family, a friend, a therapist...anyone who can help you get past your urge to die over this. Please get counseling and stay in it. No relationship or person is worth more than your life, no matter how much it hurts. Once you talk to someone, focus on taking care of yourself and keeping busy, and you will get back to a healthier frame of mind. Take care. It will get better. Link to post Share on other sites
Girlie Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Get yourself some help, fast. You do not KNOW that he is the only person you should be with. I think one of the reasons that we make things so hard on ourselves during a break up is because of that belief that there is only ONE person for you and that you've found them and if you lose them, it is the end of the world. Perhaps I am wrong, but I believe that there are many people out there that a person could be compatible with, and that you will find the right 'fit,' however, that does NOT mean that there is only ONE person for you. Just my two cents on that. Anyhow, it is so not the end of the world. There are so many people in this world that are worth knowing. Don't pin your life and your hopes on one of them so soon after you've been seeing each other. Get help moving on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
look forward Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Please dont do anything silly.. no one is worth taking your life for... and I know this time is hard and it feels hopeless but it will get better slowly but surely.. dont right yourself off you dont know what lies ahead be it with allen or someone else.. you take that chance away if you commit suicide.. I am sure everyone here at LS has been were you are at one point in their lives and we have all or are all still getting through it.. have faith in yourself and be strong find help in friends, family or even a doctor and get some counselling arranged.. Hugs and Kisses to you girl!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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