yongyong Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 I have a yogurt shop. I know many regulars. there are couples, groups of girls, groups of men and women, familes etc. those girls come maybe a once a week. this girl (A) came by herself and I asked her where the other girl was (B, the one I like) (I ask this kind of question all the time, 'so you didn't bring your friend today?') she (A) teased me if I was missing her (B) so this girl figured out somehow that I like her friend. she (A) came with the other friend and told her 'he has a crush on B ' in front of me so this girl (A) and her friend (B) don't live together anymore as a roommate. they don't come together anymore. so I believe this girl (A) already told her (B) 'hey I think the owner of yogurt shop likes you' because that's what girls do. I have no idea if she (B) would be interested in me or not. I can't just ask her 'hey why don't you give me your number so we can continue our conversation' (this is what I do at the coffee shop. If she doesn't respond to txting, fine I move on) because in this case, all of her friends will find out and tell each other 'hey that yogurt shop owner tried to hit on my friend' I think her friend (A) is the key in this situation. I don't know if I should ask her friend (A) if she (B) has any interest in me. I am sure she knows it but I don't want her share that with others. I want to minimize my risk so I want to ask her friend indirectly, find out if I would have a chance or not and then finally ask her (B) contact info in person. I am thinking about saying to her (A) 'your friend is too nice for me. I don't deserve a girl like that' (sarcastic) and listen to how she would respond any tips? Link to post Share on other sites
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