monkeymaid Posted May 20, 2010 Share Posted May 20, 2010 i dont think it means much. i work for her parents. ..the staff is supposed to go to arrowhead for the weekend and she has a new man ....text said "...hay, i want to talk to you about memorial day weekend. ...lets go for a hike, what are your thoughts?" i replied me: "im pretty busy so no hike, and im not going so no sweat. enjoy!" her:"ok" her"its supposed to be kind of a big deal, why arent you going?" i didnt respond wtf? ...im definately overanalyzing here. but why does she care why im not going? why did she assume we need to talk (prolly about the new guy and awkwardness) and why did she come at me like we need to spend time hking and talking? why not just a phone call or text convo? ....i am laughing right now cuz i am curious but am not all torn up like i thought i would be, so thats a relief thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
northstar1 Posted May 20, 2010 Share Posted May 20, 2010 Hard to say Monkey. she might be looking for some attention. Maybe the grass isnt' greener, or maybe she's just having a tough go with him and wants to know you still care....... But look at the bigger picture and thinking of the history with your ex. Do you really want her in your life again when you know how she has acted, and she needs validation from other guys and may just bail again when things get tough. I know when an ex contacts you it feels good and you begin to wonder about "what if"...........but truly think about yourself and if you really want to go on that rollercoaster again. Is she someone you can see as a good partner , who will respect you and provide a healthy relationship? Or are you just missing her because she fills some void?? Link to post Share on other sites
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