FoxMulder Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Can a woman love a man as much as a man can love a woman? Personally I don't think they can, because men are more affectionate and men usually get more emotionally attached and men takes more initiatives so thats why I think the man loves the woman more than the woman loves the man. Oppinions?
Rorschach Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 okay the other thread actually had a grain of truth to it. But this is just stupid
sweetjasmine Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Why are men so emotional all the time? Jeez, you can't even have sex with one without him wanting to marry you and stay with you 'til the end of time. :laugh::laugh:
summerl0vesyou Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 this is so backwards.....lol. ive wondered my whole life if a MAN can love a woman as much as she does. and I definitely feel that this is the other way around.. women tend to be the more affectionate, emotionally attached ones. what a laugh
OpenGL Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Women love men on the same level they love a nice pair of shoes or a gucci bag.
Cracker Jack Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 If anything, women usually love the man a lot more than they love their ownselves--at least based on things I've seen in my life. But yeah, I don't understand the OP, nor do I agree with it.
sweetjasmine Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Women love men on the same level they love a nice pair of shoes or a gucci bag. And you hate women. So it all evens out, doesn't it? :laugh:
electricity Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Am I the only one wondering if FoxMulder is just JS90, or whoever the dude was yesterday ranting about his nice friends, trolling under a different alias? But hey, it keeps me entertained during slow work days.
EricaH329 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Women love men on the same level they love a nice pair of shoes or a gucci bag. Yes, because you are so in-tune with women I believe every individual has their own idea of what love is. Their own style. Man A could be entirely open to the idea of showering the woman they love with affection. Man B could be closed off to that idea. It completely depends on the person. Generally, i'd say that there aren't varying degrees of love. Therefore, when two people love eachother, I wouldn't agree that one loves the other more or less. I'd consider it to be equal. That is, of course, if it's real love, and not lust/infatuation/etc.
marsle85 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Women love men on the same level they love a nice pair of shoes or a gucci bag. that's true.
PJKino Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I think women love being loved more then they actually love..
Woggle Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I think women love being loved more then they actually love.. Exactly. They like the chemical high of a new relationship but they have no clue what real love is.
quankanne Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 yes, he can love her as much as she loves him, that's a given. What makes relationships interesting is *how* they love each other, because there are different ways of reflecting that love. The Five Love Languages is a fantastic book that makes a lot of sense when you boil the characteristics of love down to five general elements, because that's when we see the different means of loving and how it can appear one loves less than the other. it's like comparing apples and oranges, so to say one sex can't love as much as the other is very, very misleading: What a guy sees as a pouty, beechy wife who always wants Stuff and to Be Held, she sees him as cold and unfeeling because he doesn't understand this is her way of showing her love to him, and *his* style isn't easily identifiable because he shows love by providing for her and being complimentary.
quankanne Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Exactly. They like the chemical high of a new relationship but they have no clue what real love is. so that's why my sister's ex-husband has been married four times and shacked up with an additional three women ... because the women all were hooked on a chemical high and didn't get what love actually is! I'm so glad you set me straight, because for a minute, I honestly believed the flaw was with him
Woggle Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Exactly. They like the chemical high of a new relationship but they have no clue what real love is. so that's why my sister's ex-husband has been married four times and shacked up with an additional three women ... because the women all were hooked on a chemical high and didn't get what love actually is! I'm so glad you set me straight, because for a minute, I honestly believed the flaw was with him Who broke off the relationships? Some men keep trying and trying but never seem to succeed because they do not get women.
sally4sara Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I like men too! I too can list their good qualities. That is why I dated men and married one. I advise the OP should do the same if he finds more of the qualities he seeks in men and not waste time hating on folks he finds no merit in. No point in fretting over what they do or don't do. Accept yourself and the world is your oyster! Because its good to have reached a point where you're able to identify what qualities you seek; it makes it that much easier to go about finding that someone who is right for you. So good for you OP! You've been able to vocalize what you want so you're half way to finding that special guy!
brainygirl Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 This just seems weird and honestly, woman hating. Of course women and men are equally capable of feeling deep love and affection. They are also capable of being jerks and using, cheating on, and abusing others.
Recommended Posts