Dojon.E.Fue Posted January 26, 2004 Share Posted January 26, 2004 i love my exgirlfriend..and i miss her alot she has been calling me a quite few times then i finally answer the phone so ican see what's up ..we started to talk..she noticed that i have changed my ways... she started to cry..then she told me that her car got repoed and finally said that she has a boyfriend.that she live with.. and also lost her cellphone..and been drinking everynight... so my response was are you happy with him..what did she say.."yes" but i could tell that she's not happy...we been together off/on for about two and half years..does it mean that she thinks about me all the time? or what is she trying to tell me..she is not honest withme to me if that guy cares for her he wouldn't let her be drunk all the time or have her car repoed ... lately i been geting this weird energy that something bad happen to her....then all of sudden she calls me does it means that she wants to be with me? she tells me that she doesn't want to be with me..but i'm confuse i love her alot we are only 9 years apart should i give time or should rescue her.. i hope i didn't made a mistake by calling her.because her boyfriend answered.... i need some best advice............ Link to post Share on other sites
Reckless Posted January 26, 2004 Share Posted January 26, 2004 should i give time or should rescue her.. She's gonna have to 'rescue' herself. It's perfectly normal that you want to go help her, sounds like she's a lot younger than you and may very well need 'rescuing' BUT if she is going to have any kind of a life she is going to have to learn to stand on her own feet and learn to manage her own life, make her own choices. if that guy cares for her he wouldn't let her be drunk all the time Maybe your ex isn't with someone that cares for her the way you did, maybe he cares MORE but no one can stop another person from drinking if they don't want to stop. You cannot live her life for her or constantly fish her out of trouble when she cries. She has made a choice, she's with another man she's going to have to cry to him or better yet, stop crying and start learning to look after her property, her car and herself. Leave her alone, she has a boyfriend, if she really wants to be with you she'll sort herself out, free herself from her present relationship and call you from a new cellphone and ask to get back together with you. Link to post Share on other sites
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