misslisa Posted January 26, 2004 Share Posted January 26, 2004 Hey everyone, I just recently ended a relationship with a guy who was 6yrs younger than myself, I am 24. But the way it ended was the worse, the last 2 months he had a girlfriend that I knew about but he kept telling me he was going to leave her. I was dating him and was his girlfriend before her, and then he left me for her. Last week I walked up to her and told her how him and I was still seeing one another. So later on that night I suppose she must have broke up with him because he called me 4 times, but I never picked up the phone. So a week went by without me having any contact with him until yesturday. My friend convinced me that since he owes me money I need to remind him and just quickly get off the phone. So when I called him for the first time since all of that drama his first words to me was, "What are you calling me for." In the meanest tone ever. I was shocked said what I called for and then quickly got off the phone. Five minutes later he called back but since I did not want to talk my friend answered, he said he would have it for me in two weeks. To me it was not about the money, I do still miss him and like him. But I guess it will never happen. ANd for that reason I am hurt. Is there any way I can mend what just happened. Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah12385 Posted January 26, 2004 Share Posted January 26, 2004 well, let me start out by telling you that i'm 19, so, i'm giving you my own personal opinion from my level for one thing, 18 year old guys aren't the most mature. i'm not saying all aren't, because i know some are, but generally speaking. you're 24 you said? 6 year age gap.... i've read that women mature much faster than men. so, a 16 year old girl would have the maturity level of about a 19/20 year old man. so, being as how you're much older, that could be one reason for his behavior, just the fact that he's so young. your maturity level is most likely *much* higher than his, and i'm sure you're more experienced with life, money issues, etc. however, if he has enough sense and cares for you, he wouldn't have been juggling 2 relationships the way it seems he did. you're 24, and i'm sure you're a very bright woman. he's just starting his college life (if he's going that is). can you even begin to imagine? haha, i'm in college now, so i see how many of the guys can be! lol i'm not saying that to make you feel bad, but, you should be going to the bars! lol i know i would if i were 21! try 'n just relax, go find yourself a good guy, 25+ good luck with the situation, once you get the money, lose him, you can do and deserve better Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted January 26, 2004 Share Posted January 26, 2004 It sounds to me like he is quite the player. Then, to make it worse, he's making you feel guilty and bad because he owes you money. What a philanderer! Try to get the money back if you need to. If not....leave him cold. You'll only miss who you THINK he is. I doubt he'll ever make anyone else happy...other than himself. Link to post Share on other sites
Layla Posted January 26, 2004 Share Posted January 26, 2004 Sorry to say this but I really think that you have to forget him. Do you really want to continue living in this pain and IF he gets back together with you you'll have to be constantly scared that he will be equally as mean quite soon again. Forget him. There is such lovely guys out there :-) Link to post Share on other sites
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