Amber Justiine Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 Okay so im in a long distance relationship with a boy that used to live around the coner from me. Im 18 yrs old and he is 19. We have been together for 1yr and 7months. last december he went off to bootcamp for the navy in chicago. For the first 2 months with him in bootcamp it was really hardd cause i could only write letters. Most days i wood feel really depressed. but we made it through that 2 months. I went to his graduation andd spend the weekend with him. After bootcamp he had to go to a school still in chicago. hes still n a-school now but hes getting ready to get his first duty station. I know that im really young and stuff. but we talk about marriage and kids all the time. he tells me that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and i do also with him. but the reason that im writing this blog is to ask if an of u guys think it wood b a bad thing for me to move in with him wen he gets his first duty station. I mean ie spent all this time away from him and my feelin still remain the same. I really dont wanna be away from him for this long again. wen i said something about it all he told me was where wood i go to school at. so i wood like too hear your respondes to us moving in together?What do you guys think?? Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 You're too young to be changing your whole life around for a guy. I know you love him now, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea to chase after him by moving, and then moving in right away. You have a whole life to live, and you still need to learn who you will be as an adult. You can't do that when you've glued yourself to someone else and glommed onto his life with no friends of your own and no family around. And what happens when the navy moves him somewhere else? Give it time. Let him do his thing in the navy. Finish school and get a job and go out on your own and become whom you will become. If your love is strong, it will last and be much stronger for it. You should never move in with someone out of desperation. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Amber Justiine Posted May 25, 2010 Author Share Posted May 25, 2010 yeah that makess sincee...and i guess urr right..ive lasted thiss long and its still storngg so there is no need to rushh at all..thnk u!! Link to post Share on other sites
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