i just dont do anything right

[Patty]

Me and my mother got in an argument over my bf.Ok he's not considered family and I'm kind of hurt.I said we should have a party for him this April.Im jealous cause she never thinks of him like she does my brother-in-law.Im jealous she would throw my brother in law one and not my bf.Shes like well he does alot for me.My bf does alot for her too and why does she have to be like this towards my bf,I dont know.My bf has been so respectful too.For the fact he doesnt smoke when he knows hes coming over.

 

I asked her why she never has done this type of thing,for my bf and she says well that my brother in law is part of the family.Ok so I said this means we cant celebrate my bf's b-day cause its hes not part of the family? Im real jealous about the way she thinks for other people and not my bf.I wish I was like them,then she would pay attention to me and my bf in the same ways,she does with them.

 

Patty

[Jesslynn]

Hey Patty! My name is Jesslynn! I am sorry to hear that you feel that way!! Your mom is right about your boyfriend not being a part of your family but by you he should. Which is not right for your mother to judge him because he is not in the family. I see where you are comming from! How old are you? See cause my mom wouldn't ever celebrate my boyfriend's birthday and we have been together for 2 years. See when you get older and maybe marry this guy then maybe she will celebrate his birthday. Oh tell your boyfriend to stop doing so much stuff for your mom if she is gonna be like this. I dont really know what else to tell you but keep your head up and I hope everything works out ok!!! ~*Jesslynn*~

[Patty]

Thanks for the advice Jessylyn.I appreciate it.Ive been crying cause Im hurt about it.Hopefully I'll feel better sometime soon.

 

Patty