I prefer the way skinny women look.

[Twenty-ten]

I have a small waste in proportion to my hips and very large boobs for my frame. That isn't something working out will ever be able to change. But thanks for the much worse than being overweight. This is making me feel worse and worse.

 

Oh my goodness no no no that was so not intended for you it was in reference to the poster who suggested you go out and buy clothes two sizes bigger and have them tailored.

 

I have big knockers too, and sometimes I find a hard time finding tops that will fit properly (especially jackets) because my waist is still smaller and so is my overall frame. But I certainly don't need to buy clothes two sizes bigger and get them altered. TWO sizes bigger? C'mon that's hardly a boob issue.

[Lakeside_runner]

:lmao: What a nice thread...

 

I just came back from my bike workout and while biking I saw some very nice eye-candy girls running out there.

 

P.S. Gotta change from my tri-shorts before Twenty-Ten says something about gay again...

[brainygirl]

Oh my goodness no no no that was so not intended for you it was in reference to the poster who suggested you go out and buy clothes two sizes bigger and have them tailored.

 

I have big knockers too, and sometimes I find a hard time finding tops that will fit properly (especially jackets) because my waist is still smaller and so is my overall frame. But I certainly don't need to buy clothes two sizes bigger and get them altered. TWO sizes bigger? C'mon that's hardly a boob issue.

 

Oh, sorry.

 

I tend to end up using a belt to cinch my pants tighter, or they try to sag, alwasy attractive. And I hat buying tops because I end up looking like I've stuffed myself into the shirt or like I'm swimming in it and trying to hide something hideous.

 

I am just tired of the fat bashing. There is a difference between being over weight and being morbidly obese. While people are allowed to have their preferances, they shouldn't be allowed to be mean.

 

And men who complain about not being able to find a nice woman and then complain about over weight women really shouldn't be talking.

[CLC2008]

I have a small waste in proportion to my hips and very large boobs for my frame. That isn't something working out will ever be able to change. But thanks for the much worse than being overweight. This is making me feel worse and worse.

 

 

This should link to a pic of me. It isn't fancy, but it shows my shape.

 

<a href="http://s230.photobucket.com/albums/ee172/alycegawlas/?action=view&current=isaiahbdayandassortedhappycrappy050.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i230.photobucket.com/albums/ee172/alycegawlas/isaiahbdayandassortedhappycrappy050.jpg" border="0" alt="Mom"></a>

 

Brainy, no offense but everyone has something about themselves that they dislike regardless of their size. My cousin made fun of me constantly because I was underweight at one point in time, whereas she has struggled with her weight for most of her life. So its ok for her to knock me down because I wasn't overweight, whereas never in a million years would I make a comment to her about her weight that was offensive in such a way as it was with the names she threw at me.

 

The other thread made me gag because I don't care to see someones butt be shoved in the publics face while putting down people who are too skinny, especially the way some of the guys in that thread were treating it as. If guys like big behinds, great, but seems some were fishing for validation of it at the expense of others aka skinny girls....seems strange, doesn't it...

[brainygirl]

Brainy, no offense but everyone has something about themselves that they dislike regardless of their size. My cousin made fun of me constantly because I was underweight at one point in time, whereas she has struggled with her weight for most of her life. So its ok for her to knock me down because I wasn't overweight, whereas never in a million years would I make a comment to her about her weight that was offensive in such a way as it was with the names she threw at me.

 

The other thread made me gag because I don't care to see someones butt be shoved in the publics face while putting down people who are too skinny, especially the way some of the guys in that thread were treating it as. If guys like big behinds, great, but seems some were fishing for validation of it at the expense of others aka skinny girls....seems strange, doesn't it...

 

It seems strange that its ok to bash one body type and post pictures of another and say "oh so hot".

 

I'm not looking for validation and I never said anything negative about skinny women, other than I don't find spending hours on a treadmill and at a gym to be fun or mentally stimulating.

 

The people I am attempting to bash and shame are the ones who call overweight people gross and lazy.

 

Why do so many people need to hold others down to feel good about themselves? (I expect my partner to do the same. so if she doesn't she isn't worthy of being a partner?)

[stillafool]

Brainy, no offense but everyone has something about themselves that they dislike regardless of their size. My cousin made fun of me constantly because I was underweight at one point in time, whereas she has struggled with her weight for most of her life. So its ok for her to knock me down because I wasn't overweight, whereas never in a million years would I make a comment to her about her weight that was offensive in such a way as it was with the names she threw at me.

 

The other thread made me gag because I don't care to see someones butt be shoved in the publics face while putting down people who are too skinny, especially the way some of the guys in that thread were treating it as. If guys like big behinds, great, but seems some were fishing for validation of it at the expense of others aka skinny girls....seems strange, doesn't it...

 

 

I'm with you on this one. I don't understand why people treat thinner women as if they have no feelings. My friends who were on the heavier side always made nasty comments to me because of my weight, saying things I would never in a million years say to them. Everyone has their type so why do women pick on skinny women so much.

[Star Gazer]

Not only that but if you have to buy clothes a few sizes bigger than yours and have them tailored to fit, you definitely have some big problem areas going on. I picture a very disproportionate body, not very attractive at all. That is possibly worse than being overall overweight.

 

Ha! Thanks for the insults! I smell jealousy! That's okay though. I can't help that I have big boobs and a smaller waist, and that most fitted suits are typically made to fit smaller breasted women.

 

And for the record, most of my friends get their clothes tailored in some way to make them fit just right - both thin and larger women. Not everyone is built like a damn mannequin.

[Star Gazer]

Let's see you! She has such a wide eyed beauty, very natural. I love it and am envious.

 

I've added you to my contacts, so now you can see my pictures.

[brainygirl]

I'm with you on this one. I don't understand why people treat thinner women as if they have no feelings. My friends who were on the heavier side always made nasty comments to me because of my weight, saying things I would never in a million years say to them. Everyone has their type so why do women pick on skinny women so much.

 

I don't think its just thinner women who get treated that way. I think that women's bodies are overly analyzed in general.

 

I also hate the fact that there are people online who will insult just to insult and don't care who's feelings they hurt, as long as they come out sounding great.

[Star Gazer]

You get a C plus. Thats above average

 

Yeah, as if you're in my contacts. You can't see me.

[Star Gazer]

I don't think its just thinner women who get treated that way. I think that women's bodies are overly analyzed in general.

 

I also hate the fact that there are people online who will insult just to insult and don't care who's feelings they hurt, as long as they come out sounding great.

 

But you did the same thing. You said everyone else who doesn't look like you is lying. And you certainly didn't defend me when I was basically told I'm deformed!

[Twenty-ten]

Ha! Thanks for the insults! I smell jealousy! That's okay though. I can't help that I have big boobs and a smaller waist, and that most fitted suits are typically made to fit smaller breasted women.

Jealous, of what exactly!!?!? If you need to buy clothes a few sizes bigger and altered you have some other problem areas and it's not the boobs. Sorry.

 

I know because I have big boobs and a small waist but I don't have to buy clothes two sizes bigger to get them to fit. Also my boobs are natural, didn't I read in some thread you bought yours? If so, then it could be helped. I'm curious why you would get boobs that are so disproportionate with the rest of your body that you need to buy gigantic clothes to wear?

 

 

And for the record, most of my friends get their clothes tailored in some way to make them fit just right - both thin and larger women. Not everyone is built like a damn mannequin.

 

 

I'm no mannequin but I dress off the rack. I never have anything tailored, other than pants lengthened from time to time because I am tall-ish so that would be considered my problem, the long legs. Most women chubby, average or skinny can wear clothes off the rack only women with particular problem areas have to get clothes tailored.

 

 

To the skinny women, I can relate my sister was super thin growing up and they used to make comments to her too, but because skinny is always in it seems that skinny comments don't hurt but I can assure you they do. I saw it first hand.

[brainygirl]

But you did the same thing. You said everyone else who doesn't look like you is lying. And you certainly didn't defend me when I was basically told I'm deformed!

 

Actually I said when people who are all online all day claim to be in top shape its suspicious. I didn't say they were all lying, I implied that some where.

 

And I defended myself when I thought I'd been told I was deformed. (did ya see that part?)

 

And I can't buy suits either. The pants are all way too long (even petites is seem like) and the jackets either wont button right or look a gazziliion sizes too big on me, and make me look even bigger in the process.

 

I'm not saying people HAVE to look a certain way. I am PROTESTING the fact that the ONLY WOMEN PUBLICLY ACKNOWLEDGED TO BE ATTRACTIVE are either VERY THIN or VERY THIN WITH BOOBS.

[brainygirl]

fat men are the uglyist on the planet, aquaman says so

 

aquaman is part troll. Brainy says so . . . .

[Lakeside_runner]

fat men are the uglyist on the planet, aquaman says so

 

Haha, sounds like Disco Stu :lmao:

[MyNameIsJane]

It seems strange that its ok to bash one body type and post pictures of another and say "oh so hot".

 

I'm not looking for validation and I never said anything negative about skinny women, other than I don't find spending hours on a treadmill and at a gym to be fun or mentally stimulating.

 

The people I am attempting to bash and shame are the ones who call overweight people gross and lazy.

 

Why do so many people need to hold others down to feel good about themselves? (I expect my partner to do the same. so if she doesn't she isn't worthy of being a partner?)

 

All I am trying to say is that some people are just born with the bodies they have... not naturally "fit" or anything - but you assume all women who are thin spend "hours on the treadmill" and then get mad when people make assumptions about overweight people being lazy....

 

I personally think your body is better than the one of the beauty queen you showed - granted you aren't in side by side bikinin comparisons, but you look to have better proportions.. you look HEALTHIER. I don't ever go to the gym... my weekly exercise is walking to class. But I eat healthy and my body reacts if I don't eat healthy.

 

You asked what was so disgusting about the beauty queen - and I am not saying she is disgusting, but what I think many people feel is that she is at an unhealthy weight... She may diet and diet all she wants and never look like Jennifer aniston - but I think most people would agree that she isn't at a healthy weight.

 

Nobody is asking you to spend hours at the gym... nobody is actually telling you to do anything - but you do come off as miserable about your body and hating all men that find thinner women attractive. Maybe that isn't your intent - but it is how it came across to me

[brainygirl]

star gazer is ful troll, aquaman says so

 

Brainy prefers not to comment on other people when they aren't here . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . .

[MyNameIsJane]

I'm not saying people HAVE to look a certain way. I am PROTESTING the fact that the ONLY WOMEN PUBLICLY ACKNOWLEDGED TO BE ATTRACTIVE are either VERY THIN or VERY THIN WITH BOOBS.

 

Thats just our society. There are some societies/civilizations who actually force feed their women over 5-7K (sometimes more) of calories a day to make them unthinkably heavier because that is what they think is attractive.

 

Sexy is different in all societies and to all people. It does suck that sexy in our culture is often viewed as almost impossibly thin... but what can we do to change that?

[brainygirl]

All I am trying to say is that some people are just born with the bodies they have... not naturally "fit" or anything - but you assume all women who are thin spend "hours on the treadmill" and then get mad when people make assumptions about overweight people being lazy....

 

I personally think your body is better than the one of the beauty queen you showed - granted you aren't in side by side bikinin comparisons, but you look to have better proportions.. you look HEALTHIER. I don't ever go to the gym... my weekly exercise is walking to class. But I eat healthy and my body reacts if I don't eat healthy.

 

You asked what was so disgusting about the beauty queen - and I am not saying she is disgusting, but what I think many people feel is that she is at an unhealthy weight... She may diet and diet all she wants and never look like Jennifer aniston - but I think most people would agree that she isn't at a healthy weight.

 

Nobody is asking you to spend hours at the gym... nobody is actually telling you to do anything - but you do come off as miserable about your body and hating all men that find thinner women attractive. Maybe that isn't your intent - but it is how it came across to me

 

Actually someone DID tell me to stop eating soda (which I don't use) and go to a gym and I'd get more dates. And there are lots of users who love to drop little comments about the time they spend in the gym. And they also love to talk about how lazy fat people look and how it disgusts them. And after three days of similar threads I am just a little sick and tired of it.

 

I know for a fact that men find me sexually attractive because when I want sex I have no problems getting it. But when I post on a thread about how to find an actual boyfriend (there is a difference, don't claim there isn't) I get told to drop weight. It pisses me off.

[Star Gazer]

Jealous, of what exactly!!?!? If you need to buy clothes a few sizes bigger and altered you have some other problem areas and it's not the boobs. Sorry.

 

There's nothing to apologize for. There's nothing wrong with my body.

 

I know because I have big boobs and a small waist but I don't have to buy clothes two sizes bigger to get them to fit.

 

Your waist just must be proportionally bigger than mine, that's all. Trust me, I don't look like Heidi Pratt.

 

Also my boobs are natural, didn't I read in some thread you bought yours? If so, then it could be helped.

 

I just got some missing volume filled in. But I still used a tailor before the enhancements. Most of my clothes aren't stretchy, and I like my clothes to fit perfectly, not just good enough. Sorry.

 

Seriously, I don't know what the big deal is with using a tailor?

[Star Gazer]

I'm not saying people HAVE to look a certain way. I am PROTESTING the fact that the ONLY WOMEN PUBLICLY ACKNOWLEDGED TO BE ATTRACTIVE are either VERY THIN or VERY THIN WITH BOOBS.

 

I'm not very thin, and I think I'm attractive.

[MyNameIsJane]

Actually someone DID tell me to stop eating soda (which I don't use) and go to a gym and I'd get more dates. And there are lots of users who love to drop little comments about the time they spend in the gym. And they also love to talk about how lazy fat people look and how it disgusts them. And after three days of similar threads I am just a little sick and tired of it.

 

I know for a fact that men find me sexually attractive because when I want sex I have no problems getting it. But when I post on a thread about how to find an actual boyfriend (there is a difference, don't claim there isn't) I get told to drop weight. It pisses me off.

 

This forum is uber (i said uber) tame compared to almost all other forums I have been on... people are cruel... it doesnt matter if youre stick thin or morbidly obese, people will find cruel things to say (anonymously)... When I am online, people call me stupid, slutty, skanky, etc because I have fake boobs. When irl, they wont say anything - and they certainly wouldn't have that opinion of me because they would see I dont fall under any of those labels.

 

The internet is a perfect place for people to trash on other people to make themselves feel better...

[brainygirl]

I'm not very thin, and I think I'm attractive.

 

I actually think I'm attractive too, or I did before these d@mn threads showed up.

[brainygirl]

you are star gazer are beter then averag, aquaman knows all

 

That's just looks. I have other features . . . .

[Star Gazer]

I actually think I'm attractive too, or I did before these d@mn threads showed up.

 

Then who cares what anyone else thinks?

 

I actually think I have the reverse form of anorexia (where girls constantly think they're too fat). I think I look good/thin in the mirror. I mean, I say, "Damn girl, lookin' good today!" and then I see a picture of myself and I go, "OMG...OMG...I need to D.I.E.T."