rewe4reel Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 I really want to know. Not what you think men want to hear. Don't spare our feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Um, explicit stuff that I wouldn't share on a public board My H knows a lot of what I think about, but not all (some of it is just for me). Do you have a partner? Why not ask her? Link to post Share on other sites
califnan Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Are you "troggleputty" ... Link to post Share on other sites
locamia Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Ummm..what time is son's detist appointment tomorrow?..shoot I forgot to buy milk today..wonder what I should make for dinner tomorrow night.. For me though it's so hard to just flip that switch to sex after a day of stress with the kids..my brain just doesn't stop no matter how much I want it to. When I am able to relax and enjoy the moment though or when I have to because I need to make myself cum, I kind of just make up my own porn scenes in my head Link to post Share on other sites
Cinnamon2000 Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 When I am able to relax and enjoy the moment though or when I have to because I need to make myself cum, I kind of just make up my own porn scenes in my head What do you mean you have to? Are your husband in those scenes? Are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Samantha0905 Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 It depends on the specific sexual situation/partner. When I'm totally enjoying it, it's way sexual for me and him. It's about me pleasing him. He pleases me also. We're totally there. Link to post Share on other sites
califnan Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Ummm..what time is son's detist appointment tomorrow?..shoot I forgot to buy milk today..wonder what I should make for dinner tomorrow night.. For me though it's so hard to just flip that switch to sex after a day of stress with the kids..my brain just doesn't stop no matter how much I want it to. When I am able to relax and enjoy the moment though or when I have to because I need to make myself cum, I kind of just make up my own porn scenes in my head ---------------- too cute ... ha Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 "beige ... I think I'll paint the room beige ..." :lmao: jeez, when it's good – meaning I'm not worried about my husband throwing his back out or taking part in the act because it's what *i* want, not what *he* wants – there's no thinking involved. Link to post Share on other sites
SarahRose Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 I don't think about anything. It's like I'm in another dimension of time. Link to post Share on other sites
locamia Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 What do you mean you have to? Are your husband in those scenes? Are you? Well I unfortunately lost my sex drive after kids, sadly after only 3 years of EVER having sex...so depressing..so when I'm not in the mood but doing it to keep him happy, I have to just really concentrate on different 'sex scenes'. When he is about to finish so I have to make myself cum before he does, I really have to focus in on these sexual thoughts or else I can't cum. Theyre sometimes my husband but more just faceless bodies its just the act or the position thats turning me on (eg. rough sex from behind, anal, etc..). Wow, starting to wonder if I'm thinking too much LOL.. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Are you "troggleputty" ... I swear, I was just considering that possibility myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 I really want to know. Not what you think men want to hear. Don't spare our feelings. What does your wife say? Link to post Share on other sites
califnan Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 I swear, I was just considering that possibility myself. -------------------- I found some posts Mme.. Once by troggleputty on Samantha's thread, and once on a thread called: Sexuality issue questions ... where both troggleputty and reel have said their wife enjoys having sex .. Could be just a coincidence, .. But now reel wants to know what his wife is thinking while she is enjoying having sex with him Link to post Share on other sites
FoxMulder Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 I really want to know. Not what you think men want to hear. Don't spare our feelings. Women hate sex and think it's disgusting. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Mainly I think about how hot it is when he cums, when he's moaning and pulling on my hair and knowing I'm giving him exactly what he wants. Does it for me every time. Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Based on most of the men's threads here, there aren't any women having sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Based on most of the men's threads here, there aren't any women having sex. Some people don't know what they have. Link to post Share on other sites
crazycatlady Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Come stand outside our bedroom window, I tend to get rather vocal about what I'm thinking during sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rewe4reel Posted May 28, 2010 Author Share Posted May 28, 2010 Are you "troggleputty" ... What's that mean? Link to post Share on other sites
Author rewe4reel Posted May 28, 2010 Author Share Posted May 28, 2010 What does your wife say? The problem with trying to get this kind of thing by a conversation with one's spouse is that it's impossible to know how much "editing" is going on. Even if it's not edited, I have no way of knowing if what my wife does or does not tell me she thinks about is typical. So I wanted to take a general survey of the range of things that go on in a typical woman's head. The purpose of this thread is not for me to relate what my wife has told me she thinks about, if that's what I was going to do, I would have asked the men to post about what their wives/SO's tell them, but that would be a comparison of lies. I would prefer to get the truth if you don't mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rewe4reel Posted May 28, 2010 Author Share Posted May 28, 2010 -------------------- I found some posts Mme.. Once by troggleputty on Samantha's thread, and once on a thread called: Sexuality issue questions ... where both troggleputty and reel have said their wife enjoys having sex .. Could be just a coincidence, .. But now reel wants to know what his wife is thinking while she is enjoying having sex with him LOL, so it's that rare for male posters on LS to claim that their wives enjoy sex? How sad. For them. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 According to the OP, I am basically chaste, but last time I did actually have sex (I'm pretty sure that's what was going on), I thought about x = {q + [q2 + (r-p2)3]1/2}1/3 + {q - [q2 + (r-p2)3]1/2}1/3 + p; p = -b/(3a), q = p3 + (bc-3ad)/(6a2), r = c/(3a) It was the closest I've ever cum to internalizing the Cubic Formula, and it was smokin' HAWT. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 I tune out the world by focusing on how hot bf is and on how good it feels and eventually get to that "no thought- all sexual" space others have mentioned. Once in awhile I catch myself thinking about "daily chores" and then I know I have to get back to focus on how good it feels. Now I'm curious though... What do you guys think about during sex? Link to post Share on other sites
Author rewe4reel Posted May 28, 2010 Author Share Posted May 28, 2010 Now I'm curious though... What do you guys think about during sex? That's easy....Farrah Fawcett. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rewe4reel Posted May 28, 2010 Author Share Posted May 28, 2010 According to the OP, I am basically chaste, but last time I did actually have sex (I'm pretty sure that's what was going on), I thought about x = {q + [q2 + (r-p2)3]1/2}1/3 + {q - [q2 + (r-p2)3]1/2}1/3 + p; p = -b/(3a), q = p3 + (bc-3ad)/(6a2), r = c/(3a) It was the closest I've ever cum to internalizing the Cubic Formula, and it was smokin' HAWT. Sounds like you are uncomfortable actually talking about what you think about during sex with your SO. Link to post Share on other sites
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