Cluelessned Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 I do not know know what to do in this situation. Here goes. I met this girl 4 months ago and we have been together ever since. The thing is when we got together her parents were away. Now that they are here, she is now having problems with her father. He told her that she needs permission to call boys and you get the picture. I can understand that he wants t raise like a princess but where am i left in all this? My pops told me to not get involved and let them work things out. My younger brother says i should call the father and ask myself. I waited this long because i thought things would get better when the father came, because we could hang out and stuff. Give me some advice. She is my first girl and i am her first as well but i do not like how this man is testing me. I do not think i need to be confronting 40 year old men about there daughters as i am not marrying anybody for a long time. Please tell me what you think Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 Originally posted by Cluelessned I do not think i need to be confronting 40 year old men about there daughters as i am not marrying anybody for a long time. Please tell me what you think I agree, confrontation will get you nowhere. This is between him and his daughter, it's up to her how you work into it--does she want you involved? Link to post Share on other sites
Venéa Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 Yeah, if she does then sure but remember to be nothing to be respectful and listen to his point of view - after all, she IS his daughter and it's hard for any father to watch their little girl growing up. He will probably be weary of you for a while, thinking you're after what many young guys are after ( hehe, girls get away with it, i know of a few that are after just that!). How old are you if I may ask? Link to post Share on other sites
doniker Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 I am a father to a 7 year old girl and believe me, when my daughter gets interested in boys I am going to be involved in meeting who she is hanging out with. Be polite and go knock on their door and meet the father. What have you got to lose? Standing up to him like a man can gain you some points with her Daddy. Link to post Share on other sites
asdfg Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 Go meet the dad, and ask him if you can take her out. Its not like your marrying her, but it is his daughter. Also by asking him if you can bring the daughter out, it will also show that you have respect for him, and it will make him have more respect for you. hehe and when things get even better between you and him, he might even trust you and let you bring her out late into the evening. Link to post Share on other sites
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