Asking guys: "If you do this..do you actually love her or just "F" buddy?

[so-lost]

Hi members, I'd like to get a guy's point of view of the below situation.

 

1) In what circumstances you [a guy] will correspond with a chic via text message but:-

 

at an earlier stage you don't even want to save her phone # and name in your cellphone. Basically you still text back and forth but when others look at the caller ID it's just an unsaved # with no name.

Later stage, you finally saved her name and # but you only put her last name...no first name nor first n last together.

 

 

2) Can you consider you [a guy] emotionally love or have loving feeling to the chic if:

 

your text to her is "Dont get me wrong I wanted to see u too but have been so bz lately. Also i really really miss f**king you. trust me in a week or two, we will get to see each other".

 

3) All in all if you do both of the above, do you actually love her or just use her as F**k buddy?

[Mme. Chaucer]

I'm not a guy, but I have a point of view!

 

1) Texting and how a guy identifies a girl's phone number has nothing in the world to do with whether he "loves" her or not.

 

2) This quote does not signify "love" in any way.

 

Where is the "loving" behavior?

[SinTzu]

Just a f*** buddy imo. If it was emotional I'ld make more of an attempt to see her. If it was emotional he should have at least enough class to mention that before mention f***ing.

[aqlp]

My girlfriend/ex-girlfriend puts weird names for all her contacts, without any names its just the way people do the phone thing. She has one person saved as "Froggy" I personally save first and last names in my phone.

 

Has he told you he loves you? Its possible that he does enjoy having sex with you and may have just been in that frame of mind or wanted to talk about the activity with you. Are all his texts about sex or does he text about other things as well?

[Woman In Blue]

Hi members, I'd like to get a guy's point of view of the below situation.

 

1) In what circumstances you [a guy] will correspond with a chic via text message but:-

 

at an earlier stage you don't even want to save her phone # and name in your cellphone. Basically you still text back and forth but when others look at the caller ID it's just an unsaved # with no name.

Later stage, you finally saved her name and # but you only put her last name...no first name nor first n last together.

 

 

2) Can you consider you [a guy] emotionally love or have loving feeling to the chic if:

 

your text to her is "Dont get me wrong I wanted to see u too but have been so bz lately. Also i really really miss f**king you. trust me in a week or two, we will get to see each other".

 

3) All in all if you do both of the above, do you actually love her or just use her as F**k buddy?

Oh for God's sakes. My UPS man shows me more respect than this guy shows you.

 

You don't have to be a guy to see how lame this is.

[Reality Drip]

You must have realized very quickly after posting that the question is easy.

 

The guy doesn't even acknowledge your existence beyond the vagina. When a guy loves a girl and wants to be with her he'll delete the old contacts in his phone and program you, full-on.

 

When he hides your identity and just keeps in touch on a weekly basis and via text; you're only his side dish I can guarantee it.

 

-Max

[sally4sara]

Hi members, I'd like to get a guy's point of view of the below situation.

 

1) In what circumstances you [a guy] will correspond with a chic via text message but:-

 

at an earlier stage you don't even want to save her phone # and name in your cellphone. Basically you still text back and forth but when others look at the caller ID it's just an unsaved # with no name.

Later stage, you finally saved her name and # but you only put her last name...no first name nor first n last together.

 

 

2) Can you consider you [a guy] emotionally love or have loving feeling to the chic if:

 

your text to her is "Dont get me wrong I wanted to see u too but have been so bz lately. Also i really really miss f**king you. trust me in a week or two, we will get to see each other".

 

3) All in all if you do both of the above, do you actually love her or just use her as F**k buddy?

 

It means he likes effing you behind his GF's back. You're last name is saved so anyone who might go snooping won't be alarmed by a female name.

He is to busy in his relationship to find time to eff you as much as he'd like while still going unsuspected.

 

Its not love.

[McGrupp]

if your last name is something neutral...ie smith or something, then yes hes prolly playing you.

 

right now im seeing multiple women, but besides my main squeeze i use codes for all the other girls and sometimes dont save the number at all.

 

you should back off b4 u get really hurt.

[make me believe]

CLEARLY he is just using you for sex. Please respect yourself more than to get all excited because he finally saved your number into his phone.

[Spiffy577]

1) In what circumstances you [a guy] will correspond with a chic via text message but:-

 

at an earlier stage you don't even want to save her phone # and name in your cellphone. Basically you still text back and forth but when others look at the caller ID it's just an unsaved # with no name.

Later stage, you finally saved her name and # but you only put her last name...no first name nor first n last together.

He may just decided to add the number. Just got around to it one day.

 

2) Can you consider you [a guy] emotionally love or have loving feeling to the chic if:

 

your text to her is "Dont get me wrong I wanted to see u too but have been so bz lately. Also i really really miss f**king you. trust me in a week or two, we will get to see each other".

Sorry, it really depends on the emotional state of the guy. What does he do in between the intimate sessions? Do they hang out and have fun? Do they connect on a personal level outside of the sex? If it is just quick date and sex... Well, sorry but, absolutely a f-buddy.

[SpanksTheMonkey]

Also i really really miss f**king you. trust me in a week or two, we will get to see each other".[/b]

 

 

That right there says it all no? After all common nothing says "I care about you" more then I miss your vagina! lol

[Citizen Erased]

So his girlfriend can't get suspicious when seeing a strange female name in his phone would be my guess.

[CrayonAngel]

So his girlfriend can't get suspicious when seeing a strange female name in his phone would be my guess.

 

pretty much!