petal Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 Long story short- 1. Liked this guy since school, lost my virginity to him then moved away to uni. 2. While i was away saw him when was back, but i had another boyfriend. then last christmas time we got together again and when he was in my town for xmas night out he came and stayed with me and was asking to stay for longer. 3. While I was away he also told a friend that if I was back he would be going out with me. 4. I moved back about 3 months ago but he is now seeing a girl for about 6 months. 5. 6 weeks ago he started texting me in the middle of the night after every time he has been out drinking, sometimes just friendly but then another time he told me I am the best he has had, that he has a soft spot for me and that he thinks about me. 6. What can I do?? I have always really liked him but dont want to be a bit on the side!! The situation is made more complecated because he is working away 50% of the time. I am not the bossy type and certainly dont want to tell him to dump her but that is really what I want him to do!! Help!! Link to post Share on other sites
Venéa Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 Well if you want him that badly, and he wants you, the only way he will get you is if he does dump this other woman. Talk to him, see how he feels. Tell him you don't want to be strung along but if he's serious about becoming an item again, then perhaps you can take it slow. Link to post Share on other sites
Author petal Posted January 28, 2004 Author Share Posted January 28, 2004 Well i have composed a text saying along lines of "im sorry but you cant keep texting me like this because you know how i feel about you and its affecting me, i wish things were diferent but they`re not." any thoughts?? i think he may text me again tonight so any quick response would be good!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lauren83 Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 Maybe you guys should talk about this in person? You should definitely tell him how you feel, especially since you know he feels the same way. It's really not fair for him to continue dating the other girl when he has those feelings for you, and not for her. So, the quicker he breaks it off with her, the better it will be for everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
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