gilly6 Posted June 3, 2010 Share Posted June 3, 2010 hi ive posted similar questions about my marriage on this site evey time i psot i get more determined iam getting out. been married 20 years my father is emotionally abusive to my mum i saw this all growing up and now i think iam living the same life as my mother. here are what has been continually happening over the years: Getting drunk and not comin home, maitainig his innosence? Not there emotionally for me talks alot about himself, not interested when i talk comes and goes as he wants very defense if i question him about alto of thinga met an old friend at a pub organised it and didnt tell me, i found out, he stated yelling and was defensive has never stood up for me or our kids runs around looking nice and helpful for friends and strangers but not us etc etc sooo much more i think iam co dependant Link to post Share on other sites
Eclipse11 Posted June 3, 2010 Share Posted June 3, 2010 I think that detaching and leaving is a very long, slow process...if you are feeling very unhappy then you shouldn't have to suffer any longer and you should think seriously about leaving...by the way, don't let him rope you back in with guilt tactics...that is why I stayed with my ex-boyfriend so long...Eclipse x Link to post Share on other sites
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