Lauren83 Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 Hey guys! I need help with a situation, so I hope you will have some suggestions. I have a good friend who's a guy, and I really like him, but we agreed to just stay friends because we go to different colleges now (2hrs away). We're both really busy, and know that now isn't the best time to start a relationship. Anyway, Valentine's Day is coming up and I'm totally at a loss as to what I should do! Should I send him a "friends" Valentine Card (through snail mail), an e-card, or just ignore the day completely? I always send cards to my other friends (through snail mail), but I've never really had a good guy friend like this that I've felt this way about. They've always been either friends, without a chance of anything more ever happening, or boyfriends. In both cases, I could send Valentine cards without any problems. But, as you can probably tell by my confusing little story, I don't know what to do. We both agree that it is best for us to just be friends right now, so I don't want to do anything to make him feel pressured or like we're moving too fast. I also don't want him to take it the wrong way if I don't send him anything! I really do like this guy (maybe even love him), but I want to take things slow and continue to stay "just friends" until I know the time is right for us to take it to the next level. So, do you guys have any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
lquidmetalspine Posted January 30, 2004 Share Posted January 30, 2004 Well, you said that you send cards out to all your freinds, and you both agreed to be freinds, so send a card, see what happens. Just dont write anything on the card that would make him think anything different as you wanting to be more then freinds. You have to remember and know that everything takes time. So as far as you wanting more, just take time. Talk to him more, maybe he just wants to get to know you more before he gets closer. Going on dates with freinds is not a sin, so see him more, and talk with him more. Get to know him. If he is something worth waiting for, then the ball is in your court. Link to post Share on other sites
Marty_McFly Posted February 1, 2004 Share Posted February 1, 2004 See if you can find a "flirty" card. That way, you're sending him something you wouldn't send your other friends, and you're showing him that he's something a little more than just your friend, but it's also not some sappy or cheesy profession of undying love, either. Whether it's regular or electronic doesn't matter too much, I don't think. Just as long as you can find the "right" card. Link to post Share on other sites
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