Ella whispers Posted June 6, 2010 Share Posted June 6, 2010 I have been dating a great guy for about 6 weeks now. His ex wife has come to visit their 7 yr old son whom he has custody of. Few key points: He got a haircut,shaved, worried about his tan, made a comment about losing weight, told me not to call him while she was visiting so as not to cause a fight in front of their son, I asked straight out "are you going to sleep w/ her" and he replied I don't plan on it." He said "She is already starting her crap (before she got here) by making a comment about hanging out w/ a friend of hers that he doesn't like because he caught her and this friend at 2:30 am w/ 2 other guys while they were still married. He is pretty tight lipped about their divorce, short of telling me she cheated on him and he caught her, yet, he spent 14k on their divorce, which means it was contested right??? Overall my gut is telling me that he is hung up on her. I recently went through a tough relationship and am not up for anymore drama!!! I sent him a text saying that I think they should work on their relationship because he obviously still has feelings for her. He said don;t do that to me that's f^$%&*^d up. I said no I'm being nice I understand that it's hard and respect your family situatuation. I don't want to end uop hurt so I think I cut my losses here. Any ideas? Did I jump the gun? Oh, they divorced, she remarried for 5 mos, then divorced him and got back together w/ my bf for 1.5 yrs. She left him and he intended on going with her 3 weeks later but found out she was dating again because she was lonely. Link to post Share on other sites
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