teanoranges Posted June 6, 2010 Share Posted June 6, 2010 I have moved to a new city. finally have a job and am really ready to start building my new social circle... ... trouble is that its been kind of hard. I can be super outgoing and fun and keep a conversation going but then it starts to get boring and makes me wonder too much what exactly I'm supposed to be doing. haha. anywho. I've ruled out the meetup groups simply because I've heard people don't have very good experience with them (unless its a political one, which I'm not too into) I have coffee shops and book events. I go out for fairs and whatnot, but the opportunity to meet people never really comes up.. its like if I go somewhere alone I just will not meet anyone. I need a push through the door I guess... even at work its difficult to get it through to people that I'd like to hang out outside of work (hang with them, meet new people through them, etc) And seriously, I have just come right out and said it too. And after saying it so much (to like each person I work with) it feels kind of dumb.. haha. Anywho, suggestions for my mental issue here? I seriously need to meet people! Link to post Share on other sites
crfsti Posted June 9, 2010 Share Posted June 9, 2010 I would try and meet folks who are into the same hobbies, music, etc. That seems to be the way I've met most of my friends. Link to post Share on other sites
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