jnj express Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 No one is overly self--righteous here---what they are is straight, there are many who have been cheated on---if you want people to tell you that the CHEATING you are doing is OK---go find a website, that gives you what you want----if you want honesty---then listen to it. What you are is a self-centered, selfish, immature---kid. Tell us, if you caught wind of your GF---making out with some guy in a public bathroom----how would you handle it??????? How would you handle it 3 yrs later, when she cheated on you by ommission, and kept it from you??????? If you are in a relationship---you don't cheat, if you want something on the side---then give your innocent GF, a break, cut her loose, and you can mess around with as many chicks, as you want, when ever you want----what you want is to be single---so be single!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 I know I am a jackass for doing this in the first place but the thing that made me gather some anonymous opinions is the fact that the kiss and everything felt SO DAMN GOOD I mean the coke might have its part but I woke up the next day with way less regret that I thought I'd have if not at all. The whole experience made me prone to cheating now. What the hell is up? No, the experience didn't make you prone to cheating, cheating was a part of your character all along, just came out at the club. people go to clubs knowing damn well what the main purpose of them is. you think you'd go to a club if there were absolutely NO WOMEN there? no, you wouldn't. you are there to see if you can attract another woman, you are there to flirt, and yes, to cheat if the opportunity presents itself. So break up with your gf and you can go on all the coke snorting, club hopping, make out romps with all the girls you want without hurting your gf. She deserves something better than a coked up club hopper. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 Aw come on I'm still human and male. It's like you're saying that once committed the opposite sex won't attract you anymore. no, once committed, its hands off to all other girls. a concept you obviously do not grasp. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 However I am not willing to break up with my gf no way I can't even think about that. thats because you know there is a better guy out there for her and your ego can't take it. Link to post Share on other sites
Danibelle Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 thats because you know there is a better guy out there for her and your ego can't take it. Well put (: If you want to sleep around with other girls, i can't see how you can actually love her. A big part of love is repect, and you obviously don't actually have any for her. People have cheated and not told their bf/gf because they feel so guilty and ashamed and just plain sick with themselves for letting themselves do that. You, on the other hand after barely feeling any remorse, actually want to continue messing around with other girls. It's not that you don't want to hurt her, you just don't want her to be angry and have a go at you, and you can't stand the concept of her being with someone else because she's 'yours'. Just do her favour and let her know what she's in for. If you do this and she finds out, she's gona be in a for a lot of trust issues in future relationships so if you care for her at all just be decent enough not to make a complete fool out of her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author forevertoday Posted June 8, 2010 Author Share Posted June 8, 2010 Alright you guys convinced me. I definitely have to choose. And if choosing to test things out with 1-2 girls means loosing my girlfriend I'll have to pass. I just can't let her go weather it's for the reasons you guys stated or not. I won't. Neither can I change my outgoing lifestyle as it's so great and college is almost over meaning not much time left for this to be an option. All I have left is to do my best and look the other way when getting eyeballed and simply enjoy the party. This is what I have been doing for last couple of years anyway until that night when I gave in. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 Alright you guys convinced me. I definitely have to choose. And if choosing to test things out with 1-2 girls means loosing my girlfriend I'll have to pass. I just can't let her go weather it's for the reasons you guys stated or not. I won't. Neither can I change my outgoing lifestyle as it's so great and college is almost over meaning not much time left for this to be an option. All I have left is to do my best and look the other way when getting eyeballed and simply enjoy the party. This is what I have been doing for last couple of years anyway until that night when I gave in. wrong answer. sorry, but unless your gf doesn't care that you are sewing your wild oats while keeping her dangling on a string....you are the wrong guy for her. I don't believe for a minute that someone of your character and desire to fool around with other girls is going to be able to keep himself from cheating in the future and not get the itch. You have alot of maturing to do...years worth, and during those years, you WILL do her dirty.....again. so if you so selfishly decide to keep her and keep your betrayals a cowardly secret, then you will only prolong the inevitable and will do nothing but waste her time on this planet...that time which she could be searching for a decent, mature guy. Link to post Share on other sites
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