TheBestDad Posted June 6, 2010 Share Posted June 6, 2010 (edited) Found out yesterday my wife of 7 years wants to move in with her mother and separate. We been together for 10 years and have 3 children. We have a history of fighting way too much but outside of that both of us have always been faithful etc. She was a stay at home mom until about 2 years ago. Went to work because she wanted too. Worked 3rd shift by choice so we could take care of the kids and about a year ago went to work durning the evenings. She threw herself into her work 100%. She has had a few runs with depression before and no boubt in one now. Shes sleeps on the couch because she stays up watching TV until 4am because she cant sleep. Shes done that with both depressions. She lost a child at birth about 13 years ago and that has changed her world. Her dad is not in the picture, he is a drinker. Her mom has always had relationship problems as long as I have know her. I know my mouth is a big problem but its the one of some and the others dont have anything to do with me. She just said she is unhappy and doesnt think she can be happy with me and wants to separate because she doesnt want to give up but doesnt know if there is a chance or not. Our children are our life. 10,5,3. Any advice you can give will be great. She said shes loves me but doesnt know whats going to happen. What can I do. Ive been through the tear phase, and pleaded my case and she is leaving this weekend. We agree to have a 50/50 equal time with the kids, she isnt moving far. What can I do to put it back together again? Any advice or similar experiences? Thanks in advance. (Also she wont do counsling. She done it when she lost her child at birth and thinks its a bunch of nonsense.) Thanks again Edited June 6, 2010 by TheBestDad Link to post Share on other sites
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