Curtis4015 Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 I have posted a couple of different ones in the past couple days but i have another question i cheated on my girlfriend as it said in a different one...I said i did not do it untill the very end just for her to find out we are not speaking right now...I do feel like i lost my best friend because that is what we were...I am wondering how long should i go before trying to call her....??? Link to post Share on other sites
SmittenKitten Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 I am curious. If u don't mind my asking, what made u cheat? I know it seems naive to ask. At the moment of cheating, u had a moment where u thought - I have two choices - to dishonour or not dishonour. To succumb to my selfish needs, or consider another.. Just curious at how u came to do it? I'm not judging ur reasons in a negative, just inquisitive. Your query re time. How long has it been since u broke up? Feel how she may be feeling right now. This may seem koo koo but get in touch with her spiritually if u cannot by phone. Respect her time to heal and evaluate where she now stands. I am a believer in every happening for a reason. There are no exact wrongs and rights. I am also a believer that our intentions create our circumstance. There is a reason why this has happened. Take this time to face your fears, your self and ask if you really want to be together. Personally only, I don't condone cheating in the slightest. It is a weak, selfish and shallow thing to do. But mistakes are made for a reason. Just be true to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Curtis4015 Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 Honstly i do not know i was with that girl for 3 years and i think i just might have jumped into the other realtionship to fast no i am not using that as an excuess but yes i was wrong i know that i also feel that i needed some time alone to grow and become a better person with no one by my side....And right after it happened i asked my self why i did it and i did not have a reason it was very low of me and i think that i was inmature i am sure i still have some growing up to do but i think i am past that stage and i know what i want and that is her...It has been about a week since all this happened Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts