Do most women fantasize about Black Men sexually?

[SteveC80]

The Black Man is painted as the pinnacle of masculinity,sexual prowess etc u always hear about those cuckold couples where the white guy watches a black man have sex with his wife

 

Do most women fantasize what it would be like sexually with a Black guy?

[USMCHokie]

I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like sexually with a real woman.

[Feelin Frisky]

Sure, every one of them wants a roll in the hay with Steve Harvey and/or Chris Rock.

[Engadget]

The ones who want something exotic probably do, however most women I've known didn't, or were wholly against the idea.

[Els]

I don't fantasize, but I admit that I find African Americans, South Americans AND North Indians 'hotter' when it comes to looks. Only similarity that I can see here is that they're all dark.

 

Fortunately, I don't give two hoots about looks, as all the guys I've ever been with were none of the above. It isn't as if I wasn't offered the chance, either.

[Cracker Jack]

I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like sexually with a real woman.

 

+1

 

And this topic is funny.

[paddington bear]

Yeah I fantasise about having sex of some kind before I die...

 

I guess there is the myth of the well hung black man that stil persists to some degree, but I think it is more along the lines of men being into Asian women, that it's something exotic.

 

I don't fantasise about black guys in the way you mentioned in your post (I would if I'd met some super gorgeous guy and he happened to be black, then I would be imagining all sorts of things, but that would go for any guy).

[FoxMulder]

The Black Man is painted as the pinnacle of masculinity,sexual prowess etc u always hear about those cuckold couples where the white guy watches a black man have sex with his wife

 

Do most women fantasize what it would be like sexually with a Black guy?

 

No, Women don't fantasize about men sexually at all.

[sally4sara]

The cuckold fetish is a throw back to racist views of interracial sex being taboo. Toss in a pinch of myth about the likely size of a man of color's penis for uhhhh, good measure .

 

And really, the exotic factor of dark skin is a geographical property. There is nothing exotic about men of color here in DC where I live. Caucasians are the minority here.

 

To nix certain skin colors entirely for sex partners is on the fringe of racism. Its one thing to have less attraction to a certain ethnicity, its another thing entirely to say you'd never, ever, no matter what other qualities a person has, not sleep with them due to skin color.

[phineas]

Yeah I fantasise about having sex of some kind before I die...

 

I guess there is the myth of the well hung black man that stil persists to some degree, but I think it is more along the lines of men being into Asian women, that it's something exotic.

 

I had a black woman tell me once that black men arn't bigger, their just half-hard all the time.

[Jersey Shortie]

The Black Man is painted as the pinnacle of masculinity,sexual prowess etc u always hear about those cuckold couples where the white guy watches a black man have sex with his wife

 

Do most women fantasize what it would be like sexually with a Black guy?

 

Errr, where and when is the black man alone painted as the pinnacle of masculinity? And I never hearda bout "cuckold couples" where the guy watches a black man have sex with his wife.

 

No, I don't particular find African American men sexually attractive. Although I do think they can be very handsome with amazing skin, I never had romantic feelings toward a black man.

[Eeyore79]

I personally don't fantasise about black men - I only find myself attracted to a certain type of light skinned, blue eyed man. I don't even particularly find brown eyes attractive in a white man; I like my men to be very fair.

 

Why is it on the fringe of racism if I'm not attracted to certain skin colours or features? As long as I treat everyone in society equally, why is it wrong to admit that I'm not physically attracted to some of them? If it's wrong to say I'm not attracted to black men, is it also wrong to say I'm not attracted to fat men, grey haired men, bald men, men with big noses, etc? It seems to me that I have to be somewhat discriminating in who I'm attracted to; obviously I'm not going to be attracted to everyone! Why is it ok to only be attracted to men with hair, but it isn't ok to only be attracted to men with white skin?

 

As an extension of that, if I'm going to have children with a man, I want children of my own ethnicity who look somewhat like me, therefore I only want to have a sexual and romantic relationship with a partner of my own ethnicity. Is it racist to prefer not to have mixed race children?

[JamesM]

And I never heard about "cuckold couples" where the guy watches a black man have sex with his wife.

 

You are not watching the right kind of porn.

 

No, I have not heard of it either.

[OpenGL]

Oh here we go, guaranteed 15+ page thread.

 

It feels good to know black men like myself are viewed by some as some kind of novelty and not a real person or anything :rolleyes:

[Jersey Shortie]

That's what we call objectification OpenGL. Welcome to the world of women.

 

 

You are not watching the right kind of porn.

 

No, I have not heard of it either.

 

Tease!

[NeoGen85]

The cuckold fetish is a throw back to racist views of interracial sex being taboo. Toss in a pinch of myth about the likely size of a man of color's penis for uhhhh, good measure .

 

And really, the exotic factor of dark skin is a geographical property. There is nothing exotic about men of color here in DC where I live. Caucasians are the minority here.

 

To nix certain skin colors entirely for sex partners is on the fringe of racism. Its one thing to have less attraction to a certain ethnicity, its another thing entirely to say you'd never, ever, no matter what other qualities a person has, not sleep with them due to skin color.

 

I'm a black man who is currently dating a white woman. Here in South Carolina I think I've met more white women who do not have a general interest in black men unless the right "one" appears(aka the right man in general).

 

When my girlfriend and I were talking about the future of our relationship prior to actually dating she was uncertain because of the racial barrier. She flat out told me that she never had feelings or even fantasized about a black man until she met me(and she wasn't trying to fuel my ego). That changed my perspective on things considering I've always lived in a racially mixed area where there were more interracial couples then in the current city I live in.

 

Not to mention I'm not the definition of sexual prowess(as far as physique). I just started working and even though I see progress I have a long way to go. I've always been a nerd who has enjoyed visual arts, technology, and music. I'm just an average guy but my action speak louder then words which helps.

[Feelin Frisky]

I for one would probably be phsically ill to sit there and watch anyone of any color ravage my wife. Call me a prude, w/e. I have had mucho sex with black women however but only really because they were a majority in downtown Manhattan where I worked for a long time and they were much more uninhibited and forward than most status-crazy white woman in that setting.

[Eeyore79]

You say you aren't as physically attracted to darker features etc. That's fine. Nothing wrong with that. We can't really control who we're attracted to or what we find pleasing. But to further clarify about preferring not to have mixed race children etc is racist. Not racist in a malignant or intentionally harmful way I don't believe, but still showing racial prejudice.

 

I don't find most non-white people to be physically attractive - people of different races have different features, different types of eyes and lips and noses and hair etc, different eye and skin colours - I am attracted to Caucasian type features, fair skin and light eyes. So I don't see why I can't 100% rule out dating black people or Asian people etc if I don't find their features to be attractive, just the same as I rule out dating bald men because I don't find baldness attractive.

 

I also don't want my children to have features that I find unattractive, or features that make them look unlike me. My white friend has mixed race children and people always question whether they're even hers; I don't want that to happen to me. I want to have what I consider to be beautiful children; is that such a bad thing?

 

I don't think it's necessarily discriminatory to find certain men attractive and not others, or to only want to procreate with men who will produce what I consider to be attractive children. I also only want to procreate with smart men who will produce bright children; is that discrimination too?

 

I think that people of all races, sizes, hair and eye colours, IQs, etc should be treated equally in society, but when it comes to attraction all things are not equal; we are attracted to some people and not others, and we want children with some people and not others.

[sally4sara]

I personally don't fantasise about black men - I only find myself attracted to a certain type of light skinned, blue eyed man. I don't even particularly find brown eyes attractive in a white man; I like my men to be very fair.

 

Why is it on the fringe of racism if I'm not attracted to certain skin colours or features? As long as I treat everyone in society equally, why is it wrong to admit that I'm not physically attracted to some of them? If it's wrong to say I'm not attracted to black men, is it also wrong to say I'm not attracted to fat men, grey haired men, bald men, men with big noses, etc? It seems to me that I have to be somewhat discriminating in who I'm attracted to; obviously I'm not going to be attracted to everyone! Why is it ok to only be attracted to men with hair, but it isn't ok to only be attracted to men with white skin?

 

As an extension of that, if I'm going to have children with a man, I want children of my own ethnicity who look somewhat like me, therefore I only want to have a sexual and romantic relationship with a partner of my own ethnicity. Is it racist to prefer not to have mixed race children?

 

Go back and read. I said it is different to find a lack of attraction for a particular look than it is to say that even if someone of that particular skin color had many good attributes, you would still not be with them simply because of their skin color.

I'm finding it odd that you would then go to individual physical features. You will still find a wide variety of features and body types in any skin color.

Dunno, maybe I'm just one of those people who would rather have a partner that meets all of my mental requirements while still having a level of lack in physical ones, than a pretty (whatever colored) person who lacks my preferred substance. Good luck with that.

[Yamaha]

I don't find most non-white people to be physically attractive - people of different races have different features, different types of eyes and lips and noses and hair etc, different eye and skin colours - I am attracted to Caucasian type features, fair skin and light eyes. So I don't see why I can't 100% rule out dating black people or Asian people etc if I don't find their features to be attractive, just the same as I rule out dating bald men because I don't find baldness attractive.

 

I also don't want my children to have features that I find unattractive, or features that make them look unlike me. My white friend has mixed race children and people always question whether they're even hers; I don't want that to happen to me. I want to have what I consider to be beautiful children; is that such a bad thing?

 

I don't think it's necessarily discriminatory to find certain men attractive and not others, or to only want to procreate with men who will produce what I consider to be attractive children. I also only want to procreate with smart men who will produce bright children; is that discrimination too?

 

I think that people of all races, sizes, hair and eye colours, IQs, etc should be treated equally in society, but when it comes to attraction all things are not equal; we are attracted to some people and not others, and we want children with some people and not others.

 

 

I find your attraction preferences ok but your tone tells me you would also not like to be friends with them as well. Would you have a non-smart, bald, fat, brown eyed, asian, black, mexican friend?

[MrNate]

You be they do!

 

Most women find chocolate to be irresistible. (except for eyeore79 I guess).

 

It's all good because black guys have an appreciation for the snow bunnies as well. They make us very curious, that they do.

[alphamale]

Do most women fantasize what it would be like sexually with a Black guy?

no, i think some do but not the majority. most people stick with their own race

[MrNate]

Errr, where and when is the black man alone painted as the pinnacle of masculinity? And I never hearda bout "cuckold couples" where the guy watches a black man have sex with his wife.

 

No, I don't particular find African American men sexually attractive. Although I do think they can be very handsome with amazing skin, I never had romantic feelings toward a black man.

 

I expected more from Jersey.

[MrNate]

I don't find most non-white people to be physically attractive - people of different races have different features, different types of eyes and lips and noses and hair etc, different eye and skin colours - I am attracted to Caucasian type features, fair skin and light eyes. So I don't see why I can't 100% rule out dating black people or Asian people etc if I don't find their features to be attractive, just the same as I rule out dating bald men because I don't find baldness attractive.

 

I also don't want my children to have features that I find unattractive, or features that make them look unlike me. My white friend has mixed race children and people always question whether they're even hers; I don't want that to happen to me. I want to have what I consider to be beautiful children; is that such a bad thing?

 

I don't think it's necessarily discriminatory to find certain men attractive and not others, or to only want to procreate with men who will produce what I consider to be attractive children. I also only want to procreate with smart men who will produce bright children; is that discrimination too?

 

I think that people of all races, sizes, hair and eye colours, IQs, etc should be treated equally in society, but when it comes to attraction all things are not equal; we are attracted to some people and not others, and we want children with some people and not others.

 

This is fairly depressing.

[OpenGL]

MrNate, welcome to real life? I have to deal with this crap everyday.