jinu13 Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 My girlfriend recently dumped me about a month ago and theres few questions that keeps on bugging me. we've been best friends for about 6 years, she loved me 3 years ago and i never realized that.. well we started going out on nov 21st.. and dated about good 1 and half months. 1st week was great i felt so much love from her, she told me she loved me and everything.. but after a month she totally changed. she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship, and she thought she was in love but she was happy that she finally got me and realized that she didn't have enough feelings for me and she told me that it was unbalance because i love her more then she loves me. we broke up.. she said shes gonna try hard to bring the feelings back, that she'll comeback 50/50.. how could a person change all the sudden? after she tells you all that stuff next day break up and go on as if nothing happend?.. could someone give me some answerS?.. I love her so much, i wanna try to get her back but im so confused.. please give me some inputs.. Link to post Share on other sites
doniker Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 alot of times things look better on paper. what I mean is the "idea" of you 2 dating was good but actually doing it sucked. chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned and go find another girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jinu13 Posted January 29, 2004 Author Share Posted January 29, 2004 I don't know i've never felt like this about any girl.. this ones special and i think its the "one"... she once told me to never let her go, and she told me that she wants me to be her last man.. that is why im so confused.. i felt so much love from her and then she tells me she wasn't ready for a relationship.. is there anyway i can get her back? Link to post Share on other sites
Nameless Posted January 30, 2004 Share Posted January 30, 2004 Heh, the human is a comlex thing aint it. You can always try the traditional romantic gestures. (you know like flowers and chocolates or other things). Its basically up to her from this point. But dude.... you should probably do what doniker said. I mean, imagine what would happen after she does take you back. A girl like that isnt very reliable. She changed from "i want you you to be my last man" to "im not ready for a relationship" in just a month. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted January 30, 2004 Share Posted January 30, 2004 she said shes gonna try hard to bring the feelings back, that she'll comeback 50/50.. I can't imagine anyone being happy with that. You may think you could be content, but it will eat at you after a bit. Gotta agree with the others here - don't settle. Someone else will be more than likely (and more than happy) to give you the 100% you deserve. Link to post Share on other sites
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