Guest_Hurt Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 I don't know what to do. My boyfriend, who's a few years younger than I am (he's 21, so we're not teenagers or anything), is telling me he doesn't want to date me anymore. I was his first girlfriend, and most girls don't even look at him. We've been together nearly seven months. During that time, he did a lot of little things that really upset me, like not calling me when he said he was going to, etc. Finally we broke up around New Year's. We got together again. For the past few weeks, I've been trying to be better, such as giving him more time to be with his friends, not making him call me, and trying to trust me (he's never cheated, but there have been one or two occasions during which he told small lies). He doesn't seem to have gotten better. Anyway, I thought we were happy. A few days ago we had a fight, and he said something sort of mean and untrue to me in the midst of his anger. Yesterday the fighting continued, and then today he said he didn't want to get back together with me, although later he said he did, but not like how things are now. I'm so hurt. I begged him back, promising to do better. I feel so low, now, because I thought I'd been a very good girlfriend lately. I don't know what to do. I know he still loves me, and I absolutely know he's not with anyone else. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 Talk to him about it, but it may be over for good. Just because you have been a good girlfriend doesn't mean that his feelings can't change. Because you are his first, he may have decided that he wants to see what else is out there for him, thinks that he may be able to find something better. I don't know you, but you are probably a wonderful person, and he might want to break up for something that isn't tied to you specifically. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest_Hurt Posted January 29, 2004 Share Posted January 29, 2004 I can say with absolute confidence that he doesn't want anyone else. He says he still wants me. He doesn't want to test the waters or anything. If we didn't see each other, all he'd do is start hanging out with his friends every single day again, or just sleeping, like he used to. Link to post Share on other sites
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