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how do you guys tell your SOs difficult things?

 

i had a long, slightly too intimate, phone call from an old friend last night, and knew i had to tell my guy right away. normally i do this with more finesse, but i blurt wildly when i know i'm in the wrong according to my own sense of ethics. as it turns out, he was cool with it, we all have histories; but i won't do it again.

 

but he missed my normal 'i love lucy antics' when i have to tell him something, complete with dinner and whistles. anyway, how do you guys do it? not only confessions, but break-ups, friend dumpings, anything difficult?

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I don't go to anywhere near as much trouble as you Jenny (you actually COOK?). Timing is important for us - I've learnt there's a right and a wrong time and sometimes you just have to save it.

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LOL meanon! I have learnt that one the HARD way. I used to blurt everything out the minute I thought it...now I usually take a little more time to think things through! I think that is important Jenny...it's still tough, but works better when well thought out.

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