Curtis4015 Posted January 30, 2004 Share Posted January 30, 2004 Alright i have posted a couple other ones and well this is it....I have cheated on my girlfriend and i regret it and i know it is too late to do anything about my actions but i will do anything to get her back any suggestions at all i will go to the end of the earth for her please help me Link to post Share on other sites
caretoomuch Posted January 30, 2004 Share Posted January 30, 2004 You need to regain her trust in you. She has given you her heart and you have hurt it very badly. MAYBE over time you can do this by showing her gentle care with no pressure. she is not going to jump back with you when you have hurt her so much. yes you are right that you cannot undo the past, but to regain trust in you it will be very difficult. it is more than just promising never to do it again, but through your future actions and caring she may come back. you have betrayed the ultimate gift someone can give another - dont expect it to be a fast healing and do not pressure her too much with your needs and wants. you must somehow convince her you can be trusted again. as the song says 'the first cut is the deepest'. you must help her heal - whether that is through silence and no contact or gentle caring ... do not try to justify what you did - agree with her that you have betrayed her and that trust is lost and maybe you can help her heal. Link to post Share on other sites
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