Jemini Posted June 14, 2010 Share Posted June 14, 2010 (edited) Last August I split with my partner of 9 years because I found out he was using hard drugs and had also been unfaithful. We still see each other and I have been trying to help him get his life sorted. He has a friend who his brother knew from school and ever since I've known this friend, around 6 or 7 years, there has been a lot of flirting. This continued after I split from my partner. Just before Christmas I ended up sleeping with this guy. He said he didn't want a relationship and that suited me at the time, I know I was naive. During the time we spent together he seemed to get a massive guilt complex and afterwards said it would never happen again and he stopped contacting me. A few months later (around February) he realised I had the battery charger for his van. My ex had borrowed it months ago and never returned it. This guy spent a whole evening sending me flirty txts which I maybe stupidly responded to. When he picked the charger up he was extremely sheepish and not very talkative. I haven't heard from him since and I am finding it more difficult to get over him than getting over my partner - why?? I don't work because I have MS and was told by my neuro not to. I try and do voluntary work and I have joined some groups but I know I am lonely. Is this why I'm finding it so hard to move on? Do I try and contact him, he only lives a few roads away from me, or do I just leave it? Do I love him (I feel like I do) or is this just a crush? Has anyone got any advice? Edited June 14, 2010 by Jemini Title didn't fit Link to post Share on other sites
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