exoduse22 Posted June 15, 2010 Share Posted June 15, 2010 To start off I want to say that I am not at all impossible to get along with. It is just that I had the wrong approach. As you know social classes are seen everywhere in class, work and many more. 3 years ago when I was 13, I was in 1st year high school. I was very shy and was the most quiet guy in class. People thought I was a very kind person, but as I reached high 2 I started to take action. I wanted the friends of the "high" social class (classified it to 3 classes high middle low) since they seemed SO much fun than the ones I was friends with, the "low", also they give me more confidence and the essential things to build ones character. I was almost there when I was too overwhelmed by one of the person I respect a lot and he thought I snobbed him... so it started... my hell. I slowly lost all connections because of that one person that hindered me from doing a lot of possible things to achieve my goal. Because of this no one wanted to be with me anymore as they will get bad reputation for hanging out with me... so right now I act polite to everyone I see and stay low in class hoping for a miracle... ANY TIPS ON HOW TO FIX THINGS HERE? VERY VERY APPRECIATED! THANKS! Link to post Share on other sites
Krytie TV Posted June 15, 2010 Share Posted June 15, 2010 Sorry... huh? How does the saying go? If you mess with the bull, you get the horns. Your efforts to be better than all of the "pee-ons" around you blew up in your face. Personally, I'm laughing at you. I'd tell you to be yourself and that will attract the people to you that are you have the most in common with but you'd probably scoff at that. Maybe start paying people to like you? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 15, 2010 Share Posted June 15, 2010 Be friends with people who are nice, kind hearted and fun people to be around, treat you well and enjoy your company. To scout out people in a higher social circle, in hopes to be their friend for that reason isn't cool. People are attracted to positive energy, kindness and humour. Try being you and make amends with those you may have hurt. Be honest, be sincere and speak from your heart. Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted June 15, 2010 Share Posted June 15, 2010 Wasn't this a movie called "Heathers"? Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted June 15, 2010 Share Posted June 15, 2010 I was almost there when I was too overwhelmed by one of the person I respect a lot and he thought I snobbed him... Have you tried having a calm and reasonable conversation with this guy and explaining to him what really happened, expressing that you do respect him a lot, that you are sorry for upsetting or embarrassing him, and such? If you are not willing to actually take responsibility and action to try to fix the mess, then it will not get fixed at all. And, even if you are unsuccessful, you will at least know that you made a valiant and concerted effort -- and you will be able to feel proud of that. In any case, I'm sorry that you've been having such a rough time of it. Yours is a difficult enough age/stage of life to get through...without these kinds of social situations to have to deal with. And I'm sorry for those who would use your misery for their own amusement. I'm quite sure it is the last thing you need. Keep your chin up! Hugs. Link to post Share on other sites
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