LovedUp Posted June 17, 2010 Share Posted June 17, 2010 Hello Yeah I'm new here, so thought I'd just ask a few questions seeing as though there is loads of people on LDR's here! Basically, I'm new to the whole concept of this, I never believed in this until I started talking to this girl who lives like 100 miles away from me. We started talking about 2 months ago (one big msn conversation) and added her because I thought she was funny so I thought might as well. So we start talking, I find out she lives 100 miles away and I have gotten real close with her since I have started talking to her. Anyway, I love everything about her and I just think, why can't you just live closer? and we talk all day, everyday (MSN, Text, Phone calls, Facebook etc) and I started to like her, turned out she felt the same way and we thought we would build on it to see what would happen. Things got way closer over the past week and I really wanted to be with her so I done everything I am against and asked over the phone (as I couldnt really go on the train for like 3/4 hours just to meet her and ask her straight away. She says yes, and now we've been in an LDR for the last 5 days and things have been brilliant. Now the introduction is over, time for the questions :') We're meeting next month when she has finished school for the summer and after speaking to her family, they have decided to let me stop over for a few days and vice versa. I'm just wondering whether to keep my distance a bit on the first day because I've only met her in person on that day so yeah, respect her boundaries because things could be awkward? 2nd is how to I tell my parents about this that I'm in (I'm 16 really so I can be trusted ) that I am in an LDR with someone 100 miles away and I want her to stop over? It's just basically I think that they will think I'm stupid or whatever for doing all this but it's how I feel. Sorry it's a mouthful, obviously you guys are experts so I have no idea on LDR's or anything Many thanks! LovedUp. Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted June 17, 2010 Share Posted June 17, 2010 I would say 16 is too young for you to be in a LDR, but if you really like her and can deal with the hardships of not being able to be physical regularly with your SO, relying on virtual communication to keep in contact most times, and everything else, then go ahead and try things out with her. With that said, I'd take things a bit slow at first and let nature take it's course. If she's really shy at first, don't pressure her to hold hands, kiss, etc. but keep things moving at a steady pace. Feel each other out a bit and talk to each other to break the ice. Link to post Share on other sites
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