Finally final and loving it!

[Lucid1]

BH,

 

I'm glad you're happy and through the fire, but I noticed no one pointed something out you might want to keep in mind. This new guy, "most successful, honest, hard working, sweet, mature, loving, caring, genuine people I have ever met", sounds great, but did you not feel that way about your ex at one time? After all, you married him. So, go slowly. Be cautious about jumping into the fire once again.

[2.50 a gallon]

bh

 

I hope that you never ever need to come to this forum to talk again, but please, do stop by on occassion to give us an update. You have friends here who relish your success

 

lucid:

 

No doubt that she did feel that way about her Ex. But somewhere along their journey somebody must have beat him with a stupid stick. In the past she had photos of herself and her little boy. She was gorgeous, cute, beautiful, a definite 9 plus, as close as you can get to being a 10, the general consensus of the male population on this board was that it was almost unbeleivable a woman of her looks had been set free.

 

And then you throw in the photo of her little boy about age 3 in a tux, and no normal man would not have wanted to come home to this family every night. His judgement is so poor that I can't believe that her Ex is allowed to drive

 

As to throwing caution to the wind from the sounds of it she is taking her time, it has been nearly a year and a half

[AudentesFortuna]

I'm glad to see a thread like this on here. Gives me even more hope. I'm barely 2 months into this mess and I hope a year and 4 months from now I too can be happy again! Good luck!

[broken hearted]

Gallon, I think you are going a bit overboard but I do appreciate your sweet comments.

 

It's been 1.5 years since the divorce was final and 2.5 years since the Ex and I have been together. I don't believe that I am rushing into anything with my boyfriend. I love him dearly and would love to have a future with him but I am not going to do that tomorrow.

[2.50 a gallon]

broken heated is being modest, shortly after she posted her photos, I recall, their was mention of some of the members wishing that they could take a road trip

 

AF:

 

Sorry to say, but success of this board generally means that we finally let go of the past and move on. Then with the passage of time, we eventually find somebody new who is several levels above what we lost.

 

The general rule of thumb, is that cheaters cheat down, while the betrayed spouse eventually moves up.

 

I stand as an example, my current GF is acknowedge by all who know her to be one of the kindest most giving people that they have ever met. And when it comes to the looks department, she is a couple of years shy from turning 60, but looks decades younger. She is a grandmother of a teenager, but still has an hour glass figure.

 

I now say that "Divorce is the best thing that ever happened to me"

[broken hearted]

I couldn't agree more Gallon, divorce is the best thing that's happened to my happiness!

[Damia]

Sorry to say, but success of this board generally means that we finally let go of the past and move on. Then with the passage of time, we eventually find somebody new who is several levels above what we lost.

 

The general rule of thumb, is that cheaters cheat down, while the betrayed spouse eventually moves up.

 

I stand as an example, my current GF is acknowedge by all who know her to be one of the kindest most giving people that they have ever met. And when it comes to the looks department, she is a couple of years shy from turning 60, but looks decades younger. She is a grandmother of a teenager, but still has an hour glass figure.

 

I now say that "Divorce is the best thing that ever happened to me"

 

Wow, I really like this quote a lot My xH soooooo cheated down!I'm looking forward to trading UP in the future

Happy vibes to you all xx