Engadget Posted June 18, 2010 Share Posted June 18, 2010 I don't know if its just because I'm in my mid 20s now, but women I know and meet now all seem to want to get pregnant, are already or have kids. I had a girl 2 years ago want me to get her pregnant and the girl I'm fooling around with now keeps talking about it! Is it just the biological clock or what? Link to post Share on other sites
SouthernSunshine Posted June 18, 2010 Share Posted June 18, 2010 If the girl you've recently been fooling around with is already talking about having a baby.. that's a red flag! Most women adore babies. We love to ooooh and ahhh over them, but actually getting pregnant is another story! Maybe your new girl is moving a bit too fast? What do YOU think? Link to post Share on other sites
Toki Posted June 18, 2010 Share Posted June 18, 2010 Yeah, I don't know what the deal is either. A couple of my friends have mentioned that their girlfriends have been pressuring them to have a baby, one of them has gone so far as to sneaking a morning after pill into his girlfriends water after sex, even though she claims to be on birth control. I went through a scare way back when, before my ex and I broke up, and I think she believed having a child would save the relationship. Which just redoubled my efforts to get out of it all the sooner. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Engadget Posted June 18, 2010 Author Share Posted June 18, 2010 If the girl you've recently been fooling around with is already talking about having a baby.. that's a red flag! Most women adore babies. We love to ooooh and ahhh over them, but actually getting pregnant is another story! Maybe your new girl is moving a bit too fast? What do YOU think? Yeah already figured it out its alright and we aren't dating. The other day she was talking about her belly being fat and she gave me a look and said this might be from you. I was like uhhhh no. I wear condoms everytime haha Link to post Share on other sites
make me believe Posted June 18, 2010 Share Posted June 18, 2010 Most of my friends went through a baby crazy stage in their mid-20s. I'm 27, but I went through it when I was about 23 and living with my ex-bf. I think it's pretty common at this age, but usually it's the girls who are in a committed relationship who start thinking about it. Just make sure you keep wearing that condom. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Engadget Posted June 18, 2010 Author Share Posted June 18, 2010 I think men get it too, honestly there's been times I've felt overwhelmed with the desire to impregnate women. Thankfully my logical side won't succumb to it, but I'm even experiencing it right now. There's just something sexy about knowing a woman is carrying your child. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted June 20, 2010 Share Posted June 20, 2010 I think thats pretty normal really. I'm not baby mad myself, but a lot of my friends (early to mid-twenties) are starting families or are very into babies. Women love to cluck over babies, its our maternal instincts I guess, but I also think seeing as its the main human drive (sex in order to reproduce) people being obsessed with babies and creating life isn't so unusual....girls tend to be more obsessed by it because they've got less time to get it all sorted whereas many men can be dads long into older age. Link to post Share on other sites
JohnM Posted June 21, 2010 Share Posted June 21, 2010 A few of my gf' friends have had children young and there have been periods where she gets super broody about babies. She is jokey with it most of the time, I get the feeling though that she would be pretty happy to be pregnant at any stage even tomorrow. Me on the other hand, I need to be invested, and financially capable! I don't really want to start a family until I'm close to 27+ I have too many things I want to do first. Link to post Share on other sites
asrgal Posted June 22, 2010 Share Posted June 22, 2010 haha...I am baby crazy for sure. I have to children already from my ex. And I just love to have a baby with my bf of 4 years. Well, I am already in my mid 30's and he is in his early 40' s (with 2 children). I love my man so much and want to be with no one else ever, and really would love to have a baby with him. Anyhow, he says a baby with be would be great. But honestly I think he only syas it but is just fine without. Well if it happens it happens. I love my man one way the other :-) Link to post Share on other sites
BS76 Posted June 22, 2010 Share Posted June 22, 2010 (edited) I don't know if its just because I'm in my mid 20s now, but women I know and meet now all seem to want to get pregnant, are already or have kids. I had a girl 2 years ago want me to get her pregnant and the girl I'm fooling around with now keeps talking about it! Is it just the biological clock or what? Part of it is their biological clock ticking away and part of it is them seeing you as a good provider daddy. I bet you have a decent job and all that. Careful though, women aren't above lying about birth control, poking holes in condoms, or digging them out of the trash after the fact. Also, many are capable of getting knocked up by the alpha bad boy and sticking a nice guy beta with the bill of raising the baby. Roughly 30% of paternity tests show non-paternity. Edited June 22, 2010 by BS76 Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted June 22, 2010 Share Posted June 22, 2010 Date women who have careers and are in their twenties and you will not meet this scenario. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 22, 2010 Share Posted June 22, 2010 (edited) one of them has gone so far as to sneaking a morning after pill into his girlfriends water after sex, even though she claims to be on birth control. Wow.. Drugging your SO isn't exactly the smartest move.. The morning after pill jacks with their hormones and very well can cause health issues if taken with another pill or if she has other health issues that are being treated under a Dr's care.. Excuse me.. but a effing idiot.... the guy should go to jail for it.. Why have sex with someone you cannot trust.. and the guy certainly could've used a condom instead of giving someone meds they have no clue they were getting. In PA it can manslaughter if she was already pregnant and she aborted the fetus. http://www.lifenews.com/state4446.html as to the OP.. it sounds like your GF is getting cozy with you and is nest building.. It happens in the 20's, 30's and 40's... She is obviously falling for you enough that she is planning a future with you.. Edited June 22, 2010 by Art_Critic Link to post Share on other sites
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