Dexter Morgan Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 How easy is it for you to admit when you screw up? That was my point, she knows what she did, she just doesn't want to admit it. her words to him with regards to "why" are bs. when she says she doesn't know why she did it.....she is lying.
confusedinkansas Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 ....or maybe she REALLY & TRULY does not know. Hopefully her counselor can help her figure that out. Kaysun if you decide that you're going to leave anyway - then it really won't matter one way or the other WHY.
Dexter Morgan Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 ....or maybe she REALLY & TRULY does not know. she cheated because she wanted to....no other reason than that. anything else is just an excuse.
Mr. Lucky Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 She has said she thought she loved him when she was "wrapped up" in it. She didn't want to lose me but at the same time didn't want to lose him. There are some questions that don't have acceptable answers in a relationship. And most attempts after the fact are going to be affected, either in her telling or your interpretation, by the events that have happened since then. So I doubt that you will ever get the nugget of truth that some here think you need to move on, either married or newly divorced. I think that at some point there will simply be a course that feels more right to you. It probably helps to continue to vent and share here but remember that those that are so quick to tell you to bail on your marriage don't have to live your life afterwards. Make sure you think long term in any decision you make... Mr. Lucky
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