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26th or the 30th?


christineR

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ummm......

Ok i have been with this guy for about a month now! he asked me out on the 30th of December, but we started doing other stuff on the 26th of December! I think that our one month would be on the 26th and he thinks it would be on the 30th! i dont know which is right. Would it be the day he asked me out, or the day we were doing stuff? I know this sounds silly! but I am curious. Thx!

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Hi,

 

I am no expert but I would vote for the 26th. This is the day you really became involved with each other so to me this would be the day you celebrate your 1 month involvement.

Have fun.

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In that case I'd stick with the 30. That boundary is somewhat arbitrary, because then you have to look at when a relationship starts or when it is declared a romantic relationship... but uh, if you want to go from the actions that are associated with such then I'd go with the 26th. However, if you want it to be more "official" then go with the 30th.

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On such a serious matter as this, where there is absolutely no margin for error, I would average the two and make it the 28th. After that, all you will have to do is factor in the times in which the encounters began each day and average those out as well. Then you will have an exact time on the 28th in which to do whatever you have contemplated.

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Ive been with my husband for 7yrs been married 6 and half the day we first went on our very first date is what we consider our anniversary of how long weve been together then of theres our wedding anniversary also which is another date.

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Tony's idea of averaging reminded me of something.

 

I have been known to celebrate my birthday over several days, sometimes even a whole week. This year it was on a Friday, so I started on Thursday night and celebrated clear thruogh Sunday night. When I do it over a week, it's with two other friends whose birthdays are the same week.

 

You could also make a celebratory "anniversary week" for yourselves for the period of the 26th through the 30th!

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