I dont know what I can do to help!!

[Tiffy_Pop]

Well I guess that death happens in everyones life. I am not really depressed by it, I mean it is nature taking it course. But how can you help those that just can't let go. This individual has threatend many of my family members since his wife death. He promised to kill all her sisters, cause he put the blame on them. I also have been told that the police know about this and are looking out, but how do I make sure that it will happen?

 

It is really hard esp. when two deaths have happened in my family in the past week. One from cancer, and one from a blood disorder. The husband doesn't understand that she had this when she was born, and until two years ago didn't know she had it.

 

He also has what most call "WET BRAIN" That is where his brain is so sturated with alchol and it never leaves his system when he starts drinking again. He is off the wall. I guess I am just looking for some advice to help my aunts, and my mom.

[supermom]

Sounds to me like he is really hurting from his wife's death and really needs to go to counceling. Being an alcoholic doesn't help either. Maybe if there was a way to do a mediation that might help.

 

I really hope things change for you soon! God Bless!

[Arabess]

http://www.pbs.org/inthemix/shows/show_death.html

 

Maybe you could check out the above site and get some specific ideas on how to deal with all this and help your family out.

 

It sounds like your family has surely had some bad luck in this area lately. I wish there was something I could say to make it better. I never know how to handle stuff like that either.

[Darkangelism]

Its hard, but it gets better..my best friend died, 2 months ago, was real hard, but as time passes it gets easier.