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I'm a new member and love the idea of this forum. I have a question about how to deal with major changes.

 

I have been married for almost 15 years and have two daughters (11 & 8) and my husband is getting ready to graduate from college (he returned at age 35). Our family will be undergoing a lot of major changes including - moving to a new city, starting at new schools, leaving friendships and making new ones, new jobs for my hubby and me. We're also hoping to buy a house and need a new car as well. I am just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to handle all this change at once.

 

I've suffered from depression for a lot of years and have a problem making decisions, so the upcoming 6 months are scary for me. My hubby is great and supportive, but he lacks the backbone to make all the decisions (which, believe it or not, would be okay for me right now). We've discussed our options and we both feel the same way about almost all of our choices, but I'm wondering Where do We start???

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Start by taking a really deep breath.

 

It does indeed sound like you've got quite a bit on your plate there but most of it is tied to one major thing: you will be relocating. The thought can be scary yet exciting at the same time.

 

You and your hubby will certainly want to stay focused for your daughters' sake.

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