heavensmesenger Posted June 23, 2010 Share Posted June 23, 2010 I just wanna speak to my ex it's really hard but I thought I'd post on here instead... Why do I keep wishing all the hateful things she did to me on her? Why do I keep wanting her to feel at least half of what I'm going through? It really upsets me knowing she's smiling as she's with the boyfriend she dumped me for like I was never good enough. I hear his ex is staying with him for 2 months, I hope he'll cheat on her so she can feel what I did. Nobody will ever give her the world like me. I don't mean to post my whinging pathetic life story on here but it's better then contacting her right? Link to post Share on other sites
Div Posted June 23, 2010 Share Posted June 23, 2010 I find its always therapeutic to grab a notepad and just write everything you're feeling down. Write letters to your ex BUT DO NOT SEND them. It helps. Also, NC is much easier when you keep yourself occupied. Find a book you enjoy, start watching a whole season of a good TV show back to back, ANYTHING to get your mind off her. Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted June 23, 2010 Share Posted June 23, 2010 Don't contact her. Why give her that satisfaction? I'm still heartbroken over my ex, and it's Day 2 for me, but I'm accepting that it's permanently over. I realized, with a lot of help, that he's a narcissist, and our relationship would never work out. Your girl is with another guy, who is having his ex come and stay with him. Do you really want any part of any of those people?? As hard as it is, do something else. Post here, watch a movie, take a nap, work out, just do whatever you have to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author heavensmesenger Posted June 23, 2010 Author Share Posted June 23, 2010 Treasa thats what I'm doing I figure if I post here I'll avoid the need to contact her that way she can go live her life and I can live mine. Link to post Share on other sites
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