Bellaanded4ever Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 I reconnected with an old high school crush 4 years ago. He lives the next state over to mine and we try see each other 2x a month. I can't say that I love him, he's a great guy and the sex is amazing, the best I've ever had. I can't say that I'm crazy about him and he's an average looking guy. I think he wants kids marriage down the road and not sure I want more kids since I have one that's 10. We're both 34 and I don't know if I should continue this if I can't give him what he wants.
bee55 Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 i think you should not tell him you are crazy about him unless you insure that he is not in love with other gf
aerogurl87 Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 I was in this situation and don't lead him on. Except mine was a little different in that I loved him but in hindsight I realized I didn't respect him. He was everything I should've wanted in a guy (intelligent, romantic, caring, etc. until I "cheated" on him) but it wasn't enough for me. I went through days where I'd be all "omg I love him so much" to "eh, he's alright, but I wonder if someone out there is better for me" and this was on a weekly basis. Now I'm not saying that you feel the same way, but it's not fair to him. Tell him you like him but your still trying to figure out your emotions. Don't lead him on as that will only lead to heartbreak.
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