Cheating on my husband

[Dexter Morgan]

Straddling your husbands brother and riding him and orgasming as his brother squirted his sperm in you while doing it in your and your husband's bed isn't right either! This was out of Revenge! That's all, and it's NO mistake either!

 

geez, and they say I'm harsh.

 

but really, thats what happened, that is the way people need to look at it.

 

some wonder why others think infidelity is so devestating and that it was all just a simple little "mistake".

 

When in reality, the way DV described it is what happened.

[Dexter Morgan]

your husbands a wimp!! should of tore him a new azzhole, and told mom/dad what a lowlife son they raised.

 

well if the brother deserves a torn ahole, what does the cheating wife deserve?

[Dexter Morgan]

I told you you might be surprised by his reaction. It really sounds to me like he loves you a great deal. Will you try to work it out with him if possible?

 

 

there is no working it out with a "woman" like this

[Loving_You]

I told you you might be surprised by his reaction. It really sounds to me like he loves you a great deal. Will you try to work it out with him if possible?

 

Yes, possibly. We are still talking right now and he doesn't have any plans for divorce yet.

[Maggotface]

Does anyone still have a hard time believing any of this? Maybe it's just me.

 

Anyways, do you feel no guilt for this? Do you feel it was okay just because you're husband called you some names? Honestly, that's just marriage. You guys are going to fight and call each other names, it happens but you don't go sleeping with other people because of it.

 

Also, I am from the south and don't appreciate all the incest comments. It's really rude and unnecessary.

[Diezel]

I don't believe the update.

 

If that man gets back with her, he DESERVES to be cheated on. I'd NEVER forgive a woman for cheating on me with my own flESH AND BLOOD.

 

There's a special ring in hell for women like that.

 

It wasn't an "ACCIDENT". He didn't slip and fall into her vagina.

She was a willing and able participant of this...

 

Way to destroy a family here. I hope you are truly proud of yourself.

She'll do it ... again and again... not with his brother, but with other men.

 

It's women like this that make men bitter, because not only is she a cheater, but she's a divider of families, all the while, she's the one that's least emotionally affected throughout it all. She's here posting her picture like she's proud of herself for doing what she's done.

 

Lady, I wouldn't touch you with a 1,000 foot pole. I'm surprised that whenever people walk past you, they don't automatically spit on you just for living.

 

And all this because of some money. You go to his brother, and deliberately screw him.

 

i just.... God have mercy on your soul.

[SoulStorm]

Do you honestly love your husband?

 

It may be just me, but it seems as if you are ok if you stay or go, a bit indifferent so to speak.

 

A marriage like that won't work for very long with just existing. I have been married 24 years as of July 2nd. I still have that warm feeling when I think of and see my wife. If you do not have that warm glow in your soul for your husband, how can he be sure you won't betray him if this scenario happens again? How can you be sure that he has not betrayed you? Both of you seem to be in a marriage of convenience right now.

Believe me, I agree he has work to do in treating you better, however sleeping with his brother has just trumped anything he has done to you short of physical violence. Which should never be tolerated.

Remember..nothing ever just happens..we are in control of anything we do. We choose to do the things we do.

 

Did you say you were sorry?

 

Are you just numb to it?

 

Do you realize that him and his brother are forever changed by your actions as long as you are with your husband.

 

You can never really tell people by their posting, but yours gives off a vibe of neither here nor there, just somewhere waiting in an abyss until something pulls you one way or the other.

 

A marriage takes work...lots of it. It's no fairy tale. You have to make it one (fairy tale). And even fairy tales have villians.

[LSNoob]

Ok first I wanna apologize for any unnecessary rude comments I made. Prob was just mad at that time and I'm sure vast majority people from south are good decent people. So I apologize again Maggotface and Loving_you.

 

@ Loving_you;

I have so much respect for you at the moment. People said a lot of bad things about you, unfortunately including my self, yet you didn't reply back and just ignored those comments.

 

Look most members here rather, frustrated with your behavior, than hating on you because you are a "bad person". You have a good husband why you doing this to him. Can you imagine someone over a little argument ruins your marriage by sleeping with your family member? Can you imagine how painful that is? You caused your husband that kinda pain, yet he still wants to be with you.

 

You shouldn't have made decisions at that night. Ahhh, so frustrating just reading about your situation. For a silly, bad decision, it ended up leading you to a worthless sex-night that ruined what you had with your husband. Did you really have to do it?? Was it really that worth it??

 

I hope you prove us all wrong here and show us what good person, that whole experience, turned you into. Hope you keep fighting for your husband and show him how much you care for him and I hope it works out at the end for you two. Good luck.

[alyssatranswarrior]

I don't believe the update.Lady, I wouldn't touch you with a 1,000 foot pole.

 

Judging if her picture is real (which idk the woman in that pic she posted looks REEAAALLL familiar like I seen it before = vague pornstar from years ago in a candid shot), IDK if I wouldn't just use being near her as the opportunity for using her for sex.

 

At least a nice hearty "passionate" blowjob that leaves me to blast her face, and make her feel worthless for a day or two when I don't reciprocate the oral. And never go near her again. The blowjob would probably be awesome but I'd claim I didn't want to reciprocate because she seemed like a cheater and Botch. (I replaces O there)

 

my avatar is vanessa marcil

 

Yeah, and she's a damn sight more attractive. Based on the picture its almost equal hotness with JLO (now, not in late 90s)

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Still, if ALL this is real, all she can do is try to be better than she was in her story. She clearly wasnt based on that silly shoe business. I have hope for the sheer chance this is real and it could work out. Hope springs eternal, cheating shouldn't!

Edited July 3, 2010 by alyssatranswarrior

[Darth Vader]

geez, and they say I'm harsh.

 

but really, thats what happened, that is the way people need to look at it.

 

some wonder why others think infidelity is so devestating and that it was all just a simple little "mistake".

 

When in reality, the way DV described it is what happened.

 

 

Sure it's harsh Dex, but that's the reality of the situation. To be Darth Vader you have oi harsher than all the rest!

 

She says she's not preggers, well she doesn't know that for sure, unless she can't get preggers.

[Loving_You]

Ok first I wanna apologize for any unnecessary rude comments I made. Prob was just mad at that time and I'm sure vast majority people from south are good decent people. So I apologize again Maggotface and Loving_you.

 

@ Loving_you;

I have so much respect for you at the moment. People said a lot of bad things about you, unfortunately including my self, yet you didn't reply back and just ignored those comments.

 

Look most members here rather, frustrated with your behavior, than hating on you because you are a "bad person". You have a good husband why you doing this to him. Can you imagine someone over a little argument ruins your marriage by sleeping with your family member? Can you imagine how painful that is? You caused your husband that kinda pain, yet he still wants to be with you.

 

You shouldn't have made decisions at that night. Ahhh, so frustrating just reading about your situation. For a silly, bad decision, it ended up leading you to a worthless sex-night that ruined what you had with your husband. Did you really have to do it?? Was it really that worth it??

 

I hope you prove us all wrong here and show us what good person, that whole experience, turned you into. Hope you keep fighting for your husband and show him how much you care for him and I hope it works out at the end for you two. Good luck.

 

Thank you for the encouragement. All people make mistakes sorry to say that I believe I did. In a world full of killers, rapist and much more I don't think I am that bad of a person. I think my husband and I are going to divorce but that doesn't mean I won't give up on our marriage.

 

It wasn't worth it but I am trying my best to correct it. And no I am not pregnant.

[imagine]

I have very high regard for marriage.

 

No BS should make a hasty decision. He needs three months to consider his decision.

 

I would be curious to hear that discussion between the brothers. If you are to stay, the brother shall have to become a NC forever.

[Maggotface]

Thank you for the encouragement. All people make mistakes sorry to say that I believe I did. In a world full of killers, rapist and much more I don't think I am that bad of a person. I think my husband and I are going to divorce but that doesn't mean I won't give up on our marriage.

 

It wasn't worth it but I am trying my best to correct it. And no I am not pregnant.

 

Ugh.. no compared to a murderer I guess you're not that bad. In the world of marriage you're a horrible person, you don't really seem to show any remorse what so ever. You just tell yourself, it's okay it's not like I'm a rapist.

 

What if he did this to you? Would you be so nonchalant about it?

[Loving_You]

Ugh.. no compared to a murderer I guess you're not that bad. In the world of marriage you're a horrible person, you don't really seem to show any remorse what so ever. You just tell yourself, it's okay it's not like I'm a rapist.

 

What if he did this to you? Would you be so nonchalant about it?

 

I am not better than anyone here. But I made a comparison and yes I was wrong but I am entitled to fight for my marriage. It doesn't matter if he had did it he didn't but I did. I will fight for my husband and he is still my husband right now.

[Bryanp]

Good luck to you. How did the discussion your husband had with his brother go? Will you all still be able to get along at family functions? The brother sounds like a sleezeball. Make sure you get tested before getting intimate with your husband to be just on the safe side. Good luck.

[Loving_You]

Good luck to you. How did the discussion your husband had with his brother go? Will you all still be able to get along at family functions? The brother sounds like a sleezeball. Make sure you get tested before getting intimate with your husband to be just on the safe side. Good luck.

 

Thank you. He kept it between his brother, himself and me.

 

We have all been talking but I am not sure he will forgive his brother we are still at odds obviously.

[Diezel]

Thank you for the encouragement. All people make mistakes sorry to say that I believe I did. In a world full of killers, rapist and much more I don't think I am that bad of a person. I think my husband and I are going to divorce but that doesn't mean I won't give up on our marriage.

 

It wasn't worth it but I am trying my best to correct it. And no I am not pregnant.

 

You murdered a family and a marriage, and pretty much killed the relationship between two brothers. Maybe not physically, but the emotional damage is just as bad, if NOT worse than an actual death.

 

I feel sorry for the next guy in line.

[Mimolicious]

Thank you. He kept it between his brother, himself and me.

 

We have all been talking but I am not sure he will forgive his brother we are still at odds obviously.

 

And he can forgive you? UNREAL! People put a piece of a$$ before their own blood. (At both counts)

 

Christmas is going to be sooooo much fun this year!

[JustJoe]

Well Loving, I'm partially convinced that you're not a troll, so I'll give it to you straight. You now have no rights in the marriage at all. The only person's rights that matter are your husbands. You cheated and betrayed him in the worst possible way , and did so over such a trivial reason that it is very difficult to have any sympathy for you of any kind. You certainly don't love or respect him, regardless of what you say. If you had truly loved him, it would have taken much more than a few harsh words to make you cheat, and even then, good people don't. If you have any latent integrity at all, you should leave and let the brothers alone, with their own problems. You have caused nothing but grief. I know that this sounds harsh, but it is for the best. You have , hopefully, learned a life-lesson, and will be faithful to any new man you find, and it will be much easier for the brothers to reconcile, without your divisive presence, and for you to regain your lost honesty. It's time for you to do the right thing, for once, and think of somebody besides yourself. Good Luck and I hope you will have a better future.

[ComputerJock]

Have you thought of going on the Jerry Springer show.

 

You have a funny way to fight for a marriage, sleeping with his brother. Have you tried any other of his family members, cousins, or his friends. They could all line up and get it out of the way at once. And don't think it is limited to BS and his brother. Someone will talk and when the family finds out brother and you will be thought lower then cat dung.

[Dexter Morgan]

Thank you for the encouragement. All people make mistakes sorry to say that I believe I did.

 

oh but of course you believe it was a mistake, even though you did it because you wanted to, and did it willingly.

 

 

 

In a world full of killers, rapist and much more I don't think I am that bad of a person.

 

 

its a different kind of bad

 

 

I think my husband and I are going to divorce but that doesn't mean I won't give up on our marriage.

 

you already gave up on it. better days are coming for your husband.

[rockochazz]

I wouldn't want to ruin any chance a marriage might have to heal and move forward. It would be my greatest wish to see eveyone involved come out of the family pool clean.

 

With your initial post however, and not withstanding other subsequent posts, I really think what you indicated lastly (divorce) is your only option. The damages are far to extensive when trust is broken inside a marriage, but when it extends to others of the family, it becomes down right lethal. Cut your losses, pray that your husband can learn to face problems instead of running. You and the brother re-evaluate priorities, and take a long look in the mirror to hamper any future failures with personal investutures.

 

Chlorine won't protect a pool that has been so polluted that it reaches pond status. Not unless you use so much that it kills every living thing, including the people wishing to cool off!

[jnj express]

Hey LY---You have admitted you messed up, you don't deserve a 2nd chance but you might get the greatest gift given, and that is a 2nd chance.

 

Right now I suggest you fight like hell for what's left, you know what you need to do----complete transparency, no social websites, answer all questions, as many times as he wants to ask them----complete remorse, actually heavy remorse, be very contrite---make no demands, just do what he wants---if he wants space give it to him---if he wants love give that to him---help him thru his pain----also tell him you will agree to a post-nup agreement, if that will do any good--where you will give up everything if you do anything in the way of cheating ever again---If these things don't work---well you did your best, and hopefully you will grow up, and you will have learned to follow your sacred vows, not ignore them.

 

Good luck to you, on the rest of your trip thru life on this planet.---No matter what others here say to you---you did own up to your infidelity, that's really all you can do---the rest is up to your betrayed husband.

[Liketherest]

I am not a troll at all. I am seeking advice I am very new to this forum.

 

The brothers are sharing her...

[road]

Do you know that after an affair there must be NC forever between the AP's?

 

How are you going to handle future holidays, celebrations?

 

NC means either your there or OM is there, not both, not just for a minute.